Ok, so I promised myself and my girlfriend I am going to stop masturbating for a month, because it has caused less sensitivity and small ejaculations, and we both want me to be able to orgasm when we do foreplay and have sex and things. I started Yesterday (10th December 2011) and so far its been a day. Im craving it already and I need a few tips on how to resist masturbating. I have got hard a few times already and started craving it, but never actually jerked off since yesterday at 10:30AM. Any advice on what to do in order to prevent the cravings or to stop myself thinking about masturbating?
take cold showers everyday and fill your day with activity that you won't be free except at the bedtime I managed to do this for 2 months and I was addicited to masturbation I'm back now btw
Honestly, the idea of stopping masturbation for me is just unheard of. I have plenty of good sex, but we masturbate together even. I love it. Wont be quitting in a hurry.
It's this sort of thing that makes me think about those who supposedly live a life of total chastity - including masturbation (namely Catholic priests). Whilst it may be possible, on a very rare occasion, to come across someone who can deal with their overpowering instinctive sexual urges to ease the strain that naturally accumulates, I just cannot believe, despite all their hypocritical protestations, that they don't masturbate just as much, if not moreso, than the rest of us.
LOL quite right PineMan! Are catholic priests not in some way associated with choir boys? LOL. Hypocrite bastards.
If you're used to it and stop you're more prone to wet dreams. Plus when you're wanting sex everyday she'll relent.
if you wanna stop masturbating then get into exercise. go running go bike riding go lift some weights. if you sit around and let your mind wander then you will get bored and likely start getting tempted. the key to quiting masturbating is keeping your mind occupied doing something else. tell yourself masturbating is not an option. do not even consider doing it. don't tempt yourself by thinking about it or watching porno.