No pleasure during sex

My girlfriend has had about 10 different partners before and during no times did she feel pleasure during sex. She says it doesn't hurt, but it doesn't feel good either. She has tried different positions, toys, everything that comes to mind and she still can not reach orgasm because there is no satisfaction coming from it. She has gone down to tears from frustration about not being able to enjoy sex. We are both stumped to why this is. Any ideas?

 

#1:She's obsessing over it

#2:She has some inhibition which is mentaly subduing or shutting down her pleasure centers, get her really relaxed, hot tub, massage, 2 hours of foreplay, Nitrous Oxide can do wonders but dont overdo it,,, etc,,,

Oddly enough I just read a survey in where of a test group of women,, 50% were able to acheive orgasm while barefoot while 80% overall were able to cum once they put socks on.

The researchers claimed it had to do with the Women having cold feet and it triggering some sort of security sensor in their brains, not so with warm fuzzy socks on,,,

In short do EVERYTHING you can to increase the comfort level of the surroundings for her, incense, so forth and so on. Hell, keep a bowl of her favorite fruit snack handy if it's what set's her in her "comfort zone".

 

^^^listen to him...

foreplay for 2 hours... where's the sign in sheet?

 

Apparently in a land far, far away from Chicago?

 

lol yes i am very well far away from chicago, unfortunately

 

Bring her to me!

 

thats so true..crazy..