Alright so, I'm a female and I'm eighteen. I've only just started masturbating over the past few months and I'm just kinda new to it. The only way at the minute I feel amazing pleasure is by using my detachable shower head, I get such good pleasure off it, it's like nothing i've ever experienced. But how do I know when I've had an orgasm? am I supposed to cum with an orgasm? because I really can't tell, the feeling is amazing, it goes all through my body, it tingles.. my legs twitch, But I'm still not sure, is this an orgasm? I can't tell if I've cum because the showerhead is quite powerful, so by the time I've had the chance to check, it probably would have been washed away anyway, or do I really feel it? sorry for the million questions! also I like stimulating my clitoris, is there anything else you recommend besides my showerhead what i might like? I'd like to try out some new things!
The main goal is to have a good time, it's fun to masturbate. I imagine you've been orgasming, but frankly just keep at it, its all for you, done by you, there is no score board for self pleasure. EDIT: As for recommendations, you're on the internet, google stuff.
It's different for all girls I suggest looking it up. Do you feel muscle spasms or pulses of pleasure?
I think most ladies use there finger , you can alwayse buy a toy from an adult store . Watch some porn , all the methods are there . desert rat
I alwayse thought people figured out how masterbate by them selvs and did not need any help . Like I said before , get some porn vids. they can teach you what you dont know . desert rat
Or you could be nerdy like me and read erotic stories.. porn is so fake and disgusting so I read like lieterotica ansd stuff.
Ok porn vidoes may be a bit fake . You may want to get a book like the kama sutra , it is more a how to for two . For a young lady just take your finger and play with your self . I really thought ladies figured this stuff out much eariler in life . desert rat
you'd be surprised. I know friends that don't masturbate at all. It's looked down on so much in society. Women are considered dirty if they do.
I know some see as masterbation as a sin . I am ready to put xxpeachbumxx in my post and split bin , or some call them one post wounders . desert rat
Sounds like you have had a clitoral orgasm. There is no "cum" for a woman at the time of orgasm. Some women will "Squirt", and others will get very wet in their vaginas. There is another type of orgasm, a vaginal orgasm when you stimulate the G Spot. Let me know if you want to learn how to do this.
I guess we will never know if peach bum found some thing other than a shower head . She is in my post and split bin ! desert rat
Actually I read the bible and it totally dodges the phenomena of female masturbation. Therefore all the arguments against it being sin are interpreted or infered arguments that started from the Catholic church. Remember hymens mean a women's worth back then. Coitus interruptus is a sin though and Onan gets smited by god for it in the OT.
I'm against shaming girls or women from masturbating and I also think telling them.its evil or wrong when they are young causes the insecurities we see in women in their middle to late teens and as adults in the halls of sexuality. Give em a small bullet vibe or something...geez your just activating nerve clusters at the base of your spine.
