Help with coming out?

Discussion in 'Lesbian' started by RroshHaleSpon, Dec 19, 2011.

  1. RroshHaleSpon

    RroshHaleSpon Member

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    :confused: So I am Bicurious but starting to lean towards being Lesbian. I have two Best Friends (who are Girls as well but Straight) and Iv told one of them who has excepted it. Shes really helpfull but not when it comes to my other Best Friend. My other Best Friend (who I havnt told) is good with two Guys but she isnt confortable with two Girls together (Lesbians). I want to tell her that Im Bicurious and maybe even Lesbian but Im scared of what will happen. Iv known her sence First Grade but she is NOT Confortable with Lebians. What should I do? :( :bigcry:
     
  2. slammacow

    slammacow Member

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    I think you could do either one of two things;

    You could tell her, and if she's a good friend she'll at least tolerate it and if she doesn't she wasn't a very good friend to begin with.

    Or you could not tell her because it's your business as to who you are, not hers.

    But don't think because she doesn't like lesbians that you shouldn't be who you are.

    And I always say the most homophobic are gay themselves. So who knows... she may be a very closeted lesbian herself. Specially if she sees no problem with two guys together.
     
  3. RroshHaleSpon

    RroshHaleSpon Member

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    Thanks. I think Im going to tell her but in a way that its not like Im throwing it at her. :)
     
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