So my girlfriend and I have been having sex for about a few months. We dont use a condom but she is on birth control. It feels good for me, but my girlfriend on the other hand is a different story. Before we have sex, we have a lot of foreplay. Kissing, touching, and then I eat her out and give her an orgasm. But when I go to stick my dick inside of her, she says it hurts. So i go slow, and gradually get it in. After a couple minutes, she says it doesnt hurt anymore and we thrust in the missionary position. She gets so frustrated though because it doesnt feel like anything. She tries rubbing herself while we are having sex but that doesnt really help either. She wants sex to feel good, so bad. I dont know whats wrong and its really bothering me. Has anybody else had this problem? Or have some tips? Thanks
Yes lube condomes have lube on them already ur dicks just dry u need to wet it up I prefer spit but ky is good too
Try a nice full body massage with warm (grapeseed) oil as part of your foreplay. Since you don't use a condom you don't have to worry about the oil ruining the latex. How long do you do foreplay? I put 30 minutes to an hour into my sexual endeavors, and I haven't heard complaints. Have you tried fingering?
Probably just paranoid as hell about getting pregnant, and if she can cum from oral, then why take the risk. I think this thread is actually a job for The Backdoor Man door man door man. Thats if he hasnt been banned
Well my dick is pretty wet once i get inside of her. and i can go all the way inside of her and i can thrust as hard as i can. But she doesnt feel any sensation at all. Is there any known medical conditions that are like this?
It's possible she's not super sensitive vaginally. Generally speaking, most women have most of their nerve endings in 2-3 inches into the vagina, the other nerve endings further than that pick up pressure sensations, which may or may not be pleasant for her, that depends on the women and is very individual. (In some cases she might not feel anything) Like vanilla said, focus on oral, and try to make your pelvis area rub against her clit during intercourse if you can. Also if she's got a lot going on in her head then this might also be a mental block. It's also possible that a few medications could be affecting her sex drive and therefore performance. Do any of these factors apply to you?
Lubes aren't just for the moistness, get hot lubes and tingle lubes and ice lubes and sensitive ones. It will get her pussy on fire and she will find anything down there pleasurable. Also try to do other things during to keep her turned on, such as kissing on her neck or maybe dirty talking? Or encourage her to close her eyes and think of something sexy.
^While true I would like to add that the lubes that advertise like Fire and Ice aren't for everybody. For some they can be quite irritating. I recommend exploring these different kind of lubes but start out with one that is simple and solves the issue at had for the moment.
