I have definitely watched too much porn but a really sexy scenario keeps coming up and I wonder if it is ever really considered. That's the 'blowjob for a good male friend who is not a boyfriend'. Have any of you ladies had a really good male friend that you would consider just giving a birthday blowjob if he was not in a relationship, you were not in a relationship and you weren't really looking for a FWB deal? Any of you actually given a BD BJ for such a friend?
Oh my god please do this. Totally borrowing from a man's way of thinking, and he will appreciate it no doubt. Shit, in fact he may want another one an hour or two later. That's hot.
Ah...sorry ...I was just thinking in the hypothetical. I'm a guy (and yeah I fund the idea totally hot and kind of , I dunno, sweet). Never had a BD BJ but a German girl who worked on base did tell me one time that she considered offering it to me for a Christmas present when i was stationed in Germany but decided I might think it meant she wanted more. Just asking for shits and giggles. ...ok yeah it's kind of a hot concept too.
While it seems like a good idea and I am sure that most men fantasize about it but I don't really know if it would be welcomed. Look at it this way. It is your birthday and a male friend approaches you and pulls down your panties and starts to suck on your pussy, or says to you I want to suck on your pussy as a birthday present. How would you feel? If I wasn't involved with anyone I would probably agree but then afterwards I would want the chance to suck on your pussy and stick my wand in it.
I'm a big oral sex fan who loves to suck cock and swallow big loads of thick salty cum, but no way would I ever suck a guy's cock unless I was already at least in a relationship with him. Never ever with a male "friend." And that's not just because I'm married, but even if I wasn't married or anything. First comes the relationship, then comes the great sex. That's the reality. Fantasies are a whole 'nother thing! I have some pretty wild fantasies. Slurp!
Ive done it. It was awesome. One of my best friends asked me for one for his birthday. He's super attractive but we would never work in a relationship, so I said yes. It quickly turned to fucking, and I feel like it got rid of a lot of the sexual tension that had been building up for years with us. We are still the best of friends and have spent the night together a few times and managed to keep our paws off of each other. Of course it helps that we both have significant others now.
Yeah, I just wish he hadn't told all of our guy friends about it. Now they all think they should have the same privileges.
For a guy, a bj buddy is absolutely the best. I have a female friend who is always willing to give me a bj no questions asked. She is really good at it but won't let me cum in her mouth except on my birthday so i always look forward to that.
Hey ... I am in a committed relationships with Linehaul.. (he posts here also) I used to post off and on under his name.... I have to say that this fantasy is a great scenario ... But not sure it really works cause someone will eventually develope feelings.... Sex in any way form or fashion is intimate... Friendships are compromised all the time when the lines are crossed... JMO like I said it would be awesome if friends could just fuck if no one is in a relationship and it works in fantasy but I think reality is where it gets sticky!! Literally ... Hahahah Good luck...
hey, I have a blow job fetish and I think it is ok to give a blow job and not be in a relationship with the person. I look at it like this, you don't know what your significant other is doing behind your back, so its considered the same:daisy:
I think it is ok to give a blow job to a friend who you are not in a relationship with, I love sucking dick so lets go!
I know of one member here who was given this gift by a friend of his years ago. He posted about it one time and from that post it was a gift he never forgot. It was a great post to read. So...........bonus is that you do not need to even wrap it up.
i used to give a friend of mine all sorts of sexual gifts on special occasions. he repaid me by buying me a bunch of toys that gave me earth shattering orgasms. good relationship that one was.