ive been with my man for nearly 18 months we live together rarely argue and get along well, but he never wants to have sex and when we do its never like it should be, he is really letting himself go and becoming really slob like ive told him all of this but i have no idea what to do and why things are this way
It seems to me that love expired already. All relationships have an expiration date just like milk in the market. In couples could be days, months or a few years (2 ~ 3) with a few exceptions that can last most of their life 50 ~ 60 year together.
Have a talk with him and if you don't like what he has to say get rid of him and find a new one. You know it will only get worse as time goes by.
And 30 months is it for most couples according to a Cornell University study I read about. http://www.fact.on.ca/newpaper/ti990725.htm Nothing wrong with being just friends. :2thumbsup: It`s either that or death will put an end to a relationship unless you believe in an afterlife. And short relationships can be great, while long relationships can be terrible. Duration (at least in monogamous form) is not the end-all-be-all of relationships, IMHO.
That's why I enjoy a relationship while sex is great after that there is no fun just bla bla bla with your partner. Great sex is the foundation of a nice couple relationship. If there is no great sex I'd rather walk my dog. I don't like to be listening to a woman if I don't get great sex from her. I have a really great sex drive and I'm not going to waste it with some sex frivolous woman no matter what her excuse is.
You might try sex in different ways , or watch porn togher , then have sex . He might have some one else or be gay or bi . desert rat
Wow, seems to be the week for these kind of threads, wonder if Xmas / NYE has anything to do with it. Yearly Reflection mixed with alcohol = honesty, coupled with seeing cranky older relatives and promising yourself not to end up like them
Mley 22 dont be a post and split person , let this forum know how you got your man to have lots of hot wild sex with you , and take better care of him self. desert rat
