How long did your great sex last in your relationship?

what do you think that killed it. What turned you off?

 

couple years.. her taking those goofy psychiatric drugs.. dried the pussy all up, and turned her into a SSI chasing mental case ****.

 

Whooah orison.


Well we were together for 4 and half years and he would always try to fight with me and he fought with me so much i didn't even want him in my presence... So it made me not want sex with him.

 

Wow! it is unfortunate and sad but that's what happens to most couples. Mine lasted about 3 years. After she got the kids, sex went down from 3 or 4 times a day to 2 times a month, plus I had to put up with all her complaints, illness, excuses and you name it. I loved this woman like nothing in the world but she wanted to be a mom and forgot about me. Later I found some other women wanted to marry a man than does not want to have kids and rather have a sex life than a sacrified mons' life. At the time that we met I couldn't find one that did not want kids.

 

Oh boy do I know about those evil SSRI's! I took them for about 3 months and said fuck it! I was tired of feeling like a robot. So I started self medicating myself with nature's medicine....ganja:love:

But, I will say that the passion has never really gone in my relationship. My girlfriend and I have been together for 7 years and 1 month now. We do go a month without having sex something when we are really stressed, but when we do it's still outta this world! I think having sex too often can sometimes take the magic out of it.

I suggest you try new things like toys and lingerie, we do and it's a lot of fun. Also getting drunk and fucking is always a blast

 

Fighting for what? We never fought, we were too bussy having great sex until she decided to be a mom.

 

Great sex is still here in this house. 9 Years kids and all. I mean , we did have ups and downs. But we are actually better now.

 

Come on! Don't lie! You wish! Perhaps with your lover!
We need to ask him, maybe he has left you alone for a nice lover who gives him better sex than what you ever gave him.

 

I'm not lying at all.

I have been with my husband for 9 years now and we have sex everynight. We are currently on a streak as well trying for 2 months every night.

We have 2 kids, and I won't lie it hasn't always been great. When I was working and we were both tired and busy we always made time at least once a week those days. And yes, we have had ruts where it was a bit blah.

But over the past year things have gotten better and we are in a peak right now. And we both are loving it we feel like kids again.

 

Goofy has no need to lie..... Just because your sex life sucks doesn't mean that it is that way for everybody.

 

Sex with me is always great

 

Well, Goofy is not everybody Sr.! And even if it was true, it would be the exception to so many sex unsatisfied couples. Perhaps 9 years are getting close to their expiration date! Who knows, maybe tomorrow their sex is gone. Or perhaps they are just giving them selves second chances like she mentioned that also have had times without sex. So they in deed, have suffered from the same problem that we all have here or who have manifested in this forum.
My sex life does not suck by any means, I have pussy every day as many times I need.

 

So if you have such a great sex life why do you find it hard for others to have the same? Why don't you just stick to your side of the story that you want to tell and not call everybody else here a liar if you don't like thier answer?

 

You are right I'm not everybody.

I really don't know if we are the exception I'm just going by my relationship.

I also think its pretty shit of you to say we are close to expiration date. There are people who can be with somebody for a long time and still have great sex. Most couples do go through dry spells.

 

And... What is it to you? Why you defend her? Don't be nosy! It's not of your business. Let her express her self on her behalf.
She admitted her self that her sex life has not been 100% good all the time that she is in the top right now. So she has had ups and downs. I never had ups and downs during the 3 years period that we were happy sexually when I was with my woman, the mother of my kids; but the point is the it does not last for ever like many married people or religious institutions claim.

 

Are you with her now

 

I am defending her and everybody else in here. You want to come in here and pretend you know everything and call people liars. You can't talk about peoples personal life like you know all about it. I have known Goofy for quit awhile now as well as a lot of others and I will have thier back just the same when some noob wants to come in here and act like he knows it all.

 

I guess I have to believe you now because you got offended? Of course you are an exception!
Do you know what is the divorce rate now in USA? Do you see husbands smiling in public like single guys do? Did you know that single guys have more pussy than married men any day?
I told you a liar not to attack you but to imply that some married women even if they are abused by their husbands still don't deny that they live an unhappy life, much less to have great sex.

 

She exposed her privated life here Sr. I did not forced her to say anything. She shared and I commented that's all. I did not mean to offend her, it was just a teaser so she can open up more to discussion or debate. Sorry that you took it the wrong way.

 

I've had 3 serious relationships and in each of them the women were sexual aggressors who wanted to fuck all the time. In each of these cases this lasted for the 1st 6 months to a year. During that time I never had to ask for head and we would have sex many times a day but in each case it dried up both in quantity and quality. So instead of sex 50+ times a month it would be 10 times and I would always have to ask for a blowjob. None of the three women were remotely alike, physically or personality-wise.

So, my belief is that this kind of sex is a phase for women and once they have 'bagged' their man their hormones change.