So, I'm a nonheterosexual male living in the UK about to meet with an international partner I met online and have grown to like enough to invite over. We'll be staying in a hotel for the weekend, and after some discussion, we're both up for the idea of casual sex. I'm the more dominant one of the relationship, but I'm also younger and smaller [in body size] than my partner. I'm also [unfortunately] over-endowed - although, because of the use of toys, he think's he'll be alright. I was wondering if anybody would be able to share some advice or thoughts. I'm inexperienced with other males, and so is he; it's an international, long-distance relationship... are we set to fail? What should I practice in order to be "better"?
What da fuck is a 'nonheterosexual male'? Homosexual? Is that the word you meant to type? You've got bigger issues going on between your ears than between your legs, buddy.
I say nonheterosexual because I am not sure what my sexual orientation is. I'm rather confused about it. However, I'm aware I like guys. You might as well say I'm bisexual, but I'm not even sure. Does that answer your question? If you're not aware what a 'male' is, it's a human with a Y chromosome. I don't feel homosexual. I'm just not aware where I lie on the spectrum. Thanks for your time, though. A number of months, most of which has been casual chatter and gaming alongside the idea that we were pretty much dating. I'll try and be careful, though. Thanks.
i'd argue otherwise personally because all i ever hear from the gay community is how much they hate any associated labels that they label themselves as they feel comfortable doing so. just because it doesn't adhere to what one considers 'politically correct' doesn't make it offensive. after all - 'non-hetrosexual' to me means a gay person. it's not like he said 'non-normal' did he? people like to criticize for the sake of criticism.
