So I have been having feelings for a girl I know who lives over an hour away. (She doesnt know and she is Bicurious. Also, Im the only one she has told). Im still in School and Dance is very important to me so I cant just pack up and go see her. The only way we comunicat is Tsxt or Facebook. On Facebook she posts things like what shes doing and who shes with. When I see what she posts and who shes with my heart starts to cry. I just need a way to stop my heart from hurting so bad. I still want to talk to her and be her friend as least but shes slipping farther and farther. Any help?
you can still be her friend, I have friends that I talk to maybe once a week , friends dont have to be constantly in each others life. It sounds as if you are a tiny bit obsessed , and thats why you are checking her face book and getting your feelings hurt over what shes doing in her life , you need to stop doing that for awhile and just txt her . give it some time , look at her like shes just a friend , and it will get better.
Join the club :/ But yeah, you really probably should just give yourself some space. Eventually is *does* feel better that way. It'll take time, but it should work. Did for me, I still miss her, but my heart feels like it's back in one piece
