My girlfriend and I aren't that kinky, but we like to both explore anally, and I love giving her rim jobs. I think a woman's ass is extremely attractive. But about a month ago, some rumors started circulating about her and I having anal sex, and these rumors were untrue, but she gets really self conscious about that stuff. She thinks people think that she's weird now that that rumor is going around. But the problem is that now, she only wants to do the regular routine in the bedroom, a blowjob, and maybe I get to eat her out if I'm lucky, and missionary position sex. She says after the rumors, she just doesn't want to do it anymore, even though she admits she loved it. Personally, I don't think she should care what other people think about our sex life. Agreed? Also, do you think there's any way I would be able to talk her back into rimming and really anything more exciting in the bed. If so, how?
how would those rumors even get started, unless you started them? the rumors should not be affected one way or the other by what you guys do in private.
Some girls just cannot handle truth that they may be anal whores. However, over time she will hopefully be completely comfortable with that mocking moniker. To me, anal whore is a huge plus.
That's stupid, how did the rumors even get started? How will anyone else know as long as you don't tell them?
What we have here is failure to communicate! What you do sexually is private or at least private to your girl. She is embarrassed but at least your still getting laid.
Anal-Oral is great, something I really enjoy. Me and my girlfriend speak about anal sex with our friends, whilst mine have never indulged in it a lot of hers have and they take great pleasure in discussing it at length.
