It seems there are a whole lot more submissive people than dominants (even though conventional equal-partners seem to be whole lot more common than either d/s) I want to throw some questions: Why is submission/domination such a turn on for some people? Do you think submissiveness is innate (talk about yours)? Are submissives like that because they're tough in real life and wants the bedroom as an outlet/balance? (for example there's a stereotype that CEOS and powerful men like to hire dominatrixes because they want to be free of all pressure and give in to someone else) Is it because of past abuse? Have you've had a happy childhood with supportive parents or were you abused or degraded as children? Is it because as a sub, the pursued, you feel desired? Submissives out there, why do you think you have turned out this way?
of course. but I want people to share what they think about their own cause. for example, i think my submissiveness is because i need a break from all the things that demand me controlling them.
yeah, that makes sense....i'm the same but in reverse....very easygoing and almost passive in my daily routine...but the opposite sexually...and the woman i'm with is a very assertive woman, except in the bedroom...interesting
