So when I have intercourse with my partner I don't know when it is that I cum...I'm assuming I do because of the wet spots on my bed when we are done but the feeling is not as when I have an orgasm...or is that the same thing as cuming?
yes seriously...how do I know. When I orgasm, WOW, its the best feeling ever. I just dont have that same feeling when I cum? help
haha right? Nice to meet you too. So uh, girls don't really cum like guys cum. The wetness on the sheets is just your body's lubrication.
well Vanilla Gorilla pointed out a while back in a post relating to prostate orgasm - that you have the orgasmic sensation before cumming when massaging the prostate and the actual ejaculation of cum is slightly afterwards, whereas with normal masturbation you feel the orgasmic sensation at the same time as ejaculation. So room for further study maybe? Simon :sunny:
"cum" = slang for orgasm. If you can't feel yourself cumming, it's because you didn't. You can release a LOT of liquid without having an orgasm. I'm assuming that you're a female?