I`ve got a fucking hickey, and that means I can`t go see my fb this afternoon. Hickeys suck. It`s been 3 days, and the bitch won`t go away even though I`m fairly dark-skinned. It`s smaller though, so I don`t know if I should go see her anyway...maybe she won`t notice. So, what do you do with hickeys in your free love? Are you just adamant about not having them? I think not having them is the right thing to do to avoid jealousy issues, but I`m such a dog...I like having a hickey, and sleeping around while having them. What to do?
i wonder how open relationships work... I figure if it's open then every one of your f-buddies should know that u're not committed to them and that u have other f-buddies. in which case, why would they care that someone else gave u a hickey? And if they're jealous when they see a hickey, then it must be horrible for them to even know that u have other people u sleep with... (those are real questions, im not making fun or judging or anything) And i suppose if it's a small hickey then it can pass for a bruise. Maybe u got your skin tucked in a zipper (that would hurt eh?)...
I would not worry about it, if your fb is not down with you doing certain activities with other people on occasion, then they are not really fit to be a fb. If they are getting jealous of it, then clearly they want some more committed type of relationship from you whether they will admit it or not. On the other hand if you are worries about it then just say it was a friend playing a joke type of thing when you were drinking or something.
Having an open relationship to me is not the absence of the feeling of jealousy, it is just a different solution/response to it. http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?p=7114541#post7114541
(i read your other thread too) That actually makes a lot of sense, thank u for your answer. Your relationships are more respectful than if u were with just one girl and cheated on her behind her back, at least u're honest about the fact that u aren't exclusive. Jealousy hurts. On a different note, WHATEVER U DO, DO NOT SHAVE, or your hickey will show even more.
Thanks. I do try/want to be very respectful. I have never really cheated in my life, though I`ve had a couple of close calls when I was married. Edit: On a different note, I`ve just shaved and the hickey is showing even more. I guess I`ll just have to wait.
Ha! Thanks! I googled it and ran into this wiki about the science of getting rid of hickeys! http://www.wikihow.com/Remove-a-Hickey
