I think i might be lesbian, but i have a boyfriend! Help!

(okay first of all anyone who reads this just know that if you do read it i am seriously looking for advice and help, so if you keep reading, please be willing to help or email me at "link removed".

okay, so heres my situation... I am 17, i have had my boyfriend for the past 7 months on and off. we first said i love you about 3 months ago, and i really meant it.... But now i feel like its turning into more of a brotherly love. ive lost interest in kissing him, cuddling with him and i actually lately have been avoiding even saying i love you... Another thing you should know; everyone who knows me knows i am outly bisexual. they know i am very comfortable with it and my boyfriend has accepted it. But lately i cant shake the feeling that i might not be bi. I might be lesbian. my problem obviously isnt coming to terms with my sexuality. i have no issues jumping up on the roof of my house and screaming "im gay" to the world. my issue is that i dont want to lose my boyfriend. i care about him very, very, very much and i dont want to hurt him. but my feelings are fading fast and my feelings for girls (one in particular) are growing rapidly. I cant lead him on, he deserves much more than that. if someone willing to help could email me (maybe someone with some more experience) and help me figure this out, you have no idea how much id appreciate it. hope to hear from someone helpful very soon.

Regards, Bethany.

 

please somebody help, i cant talk to anyone about this! i need some advice from someone on here please

 

Breaking up with someone sucks, whatever the reasons for breaking up are. But u can't be in a relationship just to make the other person happy, believe me that sucks even more.
the only thing u can do really is be as kind as u can when breaking up, explain what u explained here, that it's not that u don't care about him etc. It's gonna hurt him anyway but u can still be close friends with an ex, it happens.

 

You're seventeen - your boyfriend will get over it, if you're honest with him, but if you string him along to spare his feelings, he'll likely learn to be distrustful of women. Either way, it's clear you've already made up your mind. Also, you're seventeen - I'd think twice about posting my personal email address in a public forum like this. It's asking for trouble.