Hey everyone, first post here. So the story goes like this. Me and the girlfriend (bloody awesome girl) have been together now for about 2 weeks. Been seeing her for about two months before that. She is quite submissive which I'm ok with. I can be both. She loves rough sex, hair pulling, biting, teasing, spanking and playing with her nipples. The sex is just as good as the relationship (great!) Now not so much of a problem but a question. I found out last week that she is more of a person who gets mentally arroused rather than physically. So written erotica etc etc dirty talking and dirty SMS. Not so much laying in bed and then playing with her or touching this or that to get her going. Once again I'm cool with that. I understand each women has her own wy about going threw things. Ill go down on her no problem. I can do it for ages because I like it. Also some finger play while I eat which she loves. Ill godown on her while she's on her back, stomach or even in doggy with her ass faced up. But when it comes to giving me head, it hasn't happened. I found out she has quite a bad gag reflex. So much so that when we are in the middle of fucking if she sucks on my finger or something like that she doesn't go far and has mentioned not to try and push it to far in. Is there something I can do to help her along to try? She hasn't tried even once. Not that I'm going to go and have a cry about it that I don't get head because the sex is great. She's mentioned she would have a facial (lol, not on a night she washes her hair tho) I want to try and warm her up to the idea of trying. I know the real world not every women deep throats and loves being gagged etc but I'd like to attempt to find a way to talk to her or give her a idea how to atleast attempt giving head. Not demanding to talk it all but just try. Any ideas?
I used to have a terrible gag reflex, but now I can deep throat like a champ lol. It's something that she needs desensitisation to.. only through practice. Just tell her you like the feeling of her sucking, licking your cocks head.. if she's a good girlfriend she will do it to satisfy you. once you get her down there, id think that naturally shed be interested in trying new things and bring you to greater heights of pleasure.
Dump her and find another girl who will. However, if she pays all the bills you are not in the position to do that so in that case deal with it.
Even if she can't put your whole cock in her mouth she should at least be willing to try licking it and sucking on the head! She needs to return the favour if you are spending lots of time doing it for her! If not this will become a problem for you over time! My girl couldn't handle much in the beginning either, but kept at it and always at least put an effort into it! Now she can handle about 3/4 of it before she gags! She always gets an A for effort though and has become quite good at working her tongue and lips all over it!
I wouldn't dump her just because she can't / doesn't like giving head. I jus know we have a awesome sex like and that's one thing that could make it even better. I need to warm her up to the idea of starting.
Just gag her and do her in the butt. It will still shut her up, if that is the answer you are looking for.
