Wife naked in front of others

Arthur, for some of us naturism is a philosophy that guides and informs our life. For others, it is just something they find comfortable in the summer and helps create a tan with no lines. The sunners and philosophers usually get along fine!

Well it was a bit more than that. It certainly sounds like he hopes that she will be applauded as she stands in front of a huge crowd of admirers. Maybe folks here were just offering a reality check to such hopes. She will receive a great deal of kindness and affirmation and for most of us that is plenty reason to join in the fellowship. :love:

You experienced social nudity at that house with a group of friends. As you can expect, things are a bit more casual than at a commune or campground with 100 or 200 people, about half of whom are first-time guests.
What might justifiably be called "purity police" in a house with a few friends, would be considered differently in a large gathering of casual acquaintances and a few strangers.

At a naturist resort, most people would be grateful if someone from the resort staff were to step in to provide some relief for a woman who was being constantly badgered by a stranger who wanted her to have sex with him right there on the spot. Your friend was satisfied that she was able to deflect the invitations from this one guy she shared the house with. It would be another matter if she were forced to deflect 20 or 30 strangers over the course of a few hours.

Your situation was naturism, but still very different and it would not be useful to compare it to a naturist resort or campground.

I am glad you got to try social nudity. Some people don't take to it, at least you were willing to give it a go. Good for you!

 

I didn't take it that way. It's too much of an assumption.

I think if I were not up for nudity, it wouldn't be because of any particular shyness on my part, but just the whole semi-controlling atmosphere. It's better to be free than to be naked, in my view. Ironically, nudity demands a heightened structure of control in order to work, it would seem. That I can do without, thank you. It's not that worth it to me for the trade-off. I don't even think it's that healthy, considering what damage the sun's rays can do to the human body. But to each his/her own,,

Actually, I was somewhat accustomed to nudity, as my father was comfortable being naked among us, in our home, though that's not what I remember him for specifically. He was the only one I knew that did that. He was an opera singer, and had a showman's personality.

Me, I always felt as if he was perhaps a bit "over the line" with his personal show, but to each his own. I believe in freedom, not nudity in specific.

I also believe that some men just naturally tend to want to take on the role of "champion" in the case of the ladies, because it places them "at the top of the heap", so to speak. In other words, it's a cheap political tool for some, used to promote themselves as "champion" of the poor, "defenseless" young women. I'm not particularly fond of "roles of convenience", that are generally used to promote a hierarchy. I'd rather see the young ladies empowered, through martial arts and other forms of social training, to be able to easily fend off a jerk. That way they don't have to take on the pitiful task of asking some "hero" type for help. But I'm sure that some men love playing the hero.

But I see your point. I find it difficult to fathom why someone would join a nudist colony just to hit on chicks. That's absurd.

Freaks,,

 

Arthur,
I have no desire to tell others what is worth it and what isn't. That's your call.
In the case of resorts, most of what makes nudity possible is congeniality among members and guests rather than control.
Second to that, limiting access to the campground helps. In the small campground I go to and the resorts I occasionally visit, the really rude guests are rare, like once every few years. You hear about them because they are so unusual. The American nude beaches rather than private campgrounds seem to be much more bothered by guys who have poor social skills or are downright hostile.

Most of us, nudist or regular Joe in shorts and tee shirt get more unprotected sun than we should, but ironically we probably don't make enough vitamin D, for all the bad burns we pick up.
Some folks simply don't care and get way more sun than they need.
I have some fair skinned friends who are only out in late afternoon and evening, maybe the odd early morning.
Best as I can tell, based on my skin type and the sun we get in my part of the world, I need about 20 to 30 minutes of midday sun, two or three times a week to make the D that I need in the warmer months. In winter, I probably don't get enough, but I use my stored D from summer.
Otherwise, I am in the shade, indoors or out when the sun is low or gone.

I hear what you're saying. Regular nudists should teach their sons and daughters how to brush off unwelcome attention and I think many of them do.
It seems to be the young women who come to public nude beaches who get hit on the most and who typically arrive unprepared for it.
It tends to be middle-aged and older women who do the lion's share of "playing tackle" if the younger gals ask for it. Although often the gay guys are willing to help out simply by their presence. Some of the macho masher types freak out when they linger too long in the gay section of the beaches and the gals laugh their heads off when they see the bullies get a dose of their own medicine.

 

That's probably because here in America, we have poor social skills and are downright hostile.

I assume things are different in the rest of the world, from what I've read in sources of information I've smuggled into my home from my contacts in the revolutionary underground. Our authorities here keep us in the dark a bit. We aren't allowed literature apart from the state-authorized school system.

I bet you get to read anything you want, there across the ocean.


Butt seriously,,

We have more mentally ill running around on the beaches, or sexually overcharged males, all hyped up on Starbuck's Vente Latte Mochachismos,,,



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No problem with my wife being nude around others. Since we are nudists, EVERYONE is nude, or no one is. What's the big deal? If you're talking about having your wife strip just so others can see her naked body, that's NOT good.

 

I'm not married yet but I must say I do not mind my girlfriend nude when we are on a naturist beach, for instance. Just because noone really cares. I do not have to worry that someone will stare at her.

 

I don't know about the 60's I was a bit young then, but the 80's was the time for me. 3 weeks a year in southern France and really chilling out and no silly rules.

It was a strange combination of relaxation and titillation for both my wife and I. Everyone was really laid back, no one shouting at the kids, no stupid drunks, maybe a little pot going around, but definitely laughter. People dressed up in the evening, others went bottomless, with just a jumper on when the temperature dropped, I liked that.

I felt fine with my pretty average body, but felt good about my wife showing hers, she had great, slightly sagging tits and a better than average bod, so very nice to look at. Sometimes she would feel a little shy and keep her legs closed in public, other times, especially after a little wine, she would spread them for the hell of it. I really liked that, liked it when other women did it too. Not very politically correct but who give a toss, we are sexual beings, no point in denying it.

I really miss those days, my new wife won't do it and I won't push here, so it is just memories now and a few photos.