I Can't Have Sex With My Girlfriend...

This probably isn't what you're thinking. I've been with my girlfriend about for 6 years and we didnt start having sex until the 4th year of our relationship. Not because she didn't want to, it was just that it caused her too much pain. So a while after we were finally able to, I find out she had been cheating on me and she admitted to letting another guy finger her (I think its obvious that it was more than that since we were finally able to have sex but whatever).

So we stopped seeing each other for a while but eventually got back together, and the sex was good for a few months but now I find it difficult to be sexual with her. Don't get me wrong, I'm still very attracted to her and she wants it pretty much all the time but I just can't bring myself to do it when she wants to. I'd say it only happens about once a month and I know she isn't satisfied but for the most part she's fine with it. I guess I just feel like I should be the one that wants it all the time, not her. Whats worse is lately I've been watching porn online which isn't even satisfying either. I guess I'm just looking for advice because I'm too embarrassed to talk to anyone else about this so any input or experience anyone might have would be great. Thanks.

 

Give up the porn for the real thing. If you don't take care of her someone else will. She proved that to you already. If she isn't the one for you then set here free so she can go and find what she needs, and the same for you. Good Luck.

 

Agree.

I'm not you. But it seems like you both may just be parked until one of you finds something better.

 

Make sure you crush her feelings though.

"Another guy loosened me up so I'm good to go now"

pfft

 

This made me lol.. But honestly thank you all for the no bullshit advice. I think I should've mentioned that I cheated on her too after that, and that other than our sex life, the relationship couldn't be better.

 

Well, if you ain't going to give it to her, someone else will.

 

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Your relationship sounds great indeed.

 

You sat around for how long while she was out getting finger banged by some other dude?

 

Someone gone put it in her do u want it to be u?