I don't know how to tell her I'm interested...

So I've been really attracted to a girl at college and have recently felt that I'd love to be in a relationship with her. Over the past few days, we've spent quite a bit of time chatting and getting to know each other. We're in different circles of friends and I don't see her very often, and it's not like we're really close or anything. Thing is, she's lesbian but has no idea I am...I'm finding it hard to casually bring it into conversation, as it looks kinda weird just a blurt it out randomly. Even if I did tell her, this is my first potential relationship with a girl; I've only ever had flings and can honestly say I've never felt about anyone else like this before. I have no idea how to approach her about this....any advice would be appreciated

 

Just be honest and tell her.

 

the only thing that's holding me back is the little time we've known each others, she might get a bit freaked out at first as I have no idea how she sees me...

 

If you wait and she moves on you would feel much worse.

 

Well if you let her know you were also a lesbian, wouldn't that let her know you are open?

I am a straight male so I really dont know how you would hit on someone of the same gender.

Wish I could have been more help. Goodluck!

 

Well if you really don't know her well maybe it'd be a good idea to actually let her know you're gay. Maybe by asking her advice on something. I have the same problem as you; I find it pretty hard to casually blurt out I'm gay, let alone admit I'm interested in someone. A white lie wouldn't hurt if you really don't have any real gay-related issues.

 

Just ask her if she wants to go out with you sometime. That should tip her off.