We have some distance between us, he recently lived with me for 7 months... which worked out great. Neither of us went online ( I barely go on much anyways) He went back to his home town to see his parents....everything changed. He doesn't want to chat with me online or Skype much at all, haven't seen him since Nov.....but he's online every day. No work......... just wakes up goes online posts, buys these statues and junk with naked women poses (and half naked)which cost hundreds of dollars.... but he still owes me money for helping him go home. It's not that him being online is the problem.. its ALL day and night... with dozens of porn sites, hidden emails in which he talks to girls (he fessed on that one but states they are just friends...but why hide then) dozens of other sites in which he posts about toys, porn and goodness knows what... I been trying to leave him, all we do is argue now... he says everything wrong with us is my fault, I should be grateful..... we were together almost two years and 6 months of that is been this.... I left him due to me being the last person he talks to ... his first priority is online, forums, chats and shopping, "friends" , his cell .. t.v then me.... hate that I feel so sad, because we were bliss happy when living together, but since he left. Has made impossible to go back. I hate that I'm the only who really takes this seriously and crying or attempting to try talk civil. Now I'm just sad.... and yes we are broken up but he tries to get back together but says i have to like his "hobbies" ...and i won't because i shouldnt have to agree with something that makes me uncomfortable/upset/sad.....
move on already. sounds like a shit relationship from what you've posted here; you're better off without his baggage.
You lived together for seven months and now he has moved back in with his parents? What part of 'he has left, and is never coming back' don't you understand? You haven't seen him in two months either? He is gone. As in gone, and not coming back. Ever. He is probably married by now. What do you mean by 'his hobbies'? You getting taped having butt sex with dwarf clowns and donkeys? Cut him loose.
Move on - you are worth more than to be used. "You 'have' to like my hobbie" is an outdated philosophy
just stop talking to him. he wont even notice. go get a boyfriend who likes sex better than masturbating
Please re-read that sentence, and memorize it too, for when he tries to get back with u. There's always something very wrong when someone tells u u should be grateful for them being with u.
YEs these are some of many things I try to remember, we were friends first then relationship. He did try c ome back but was unable to but now doesn't do much to try again so yes i do have to see what is clearly in my face..... truth hurts. Why should i care this much after what he's been doing against me?
I'm very glad that the seperation went through................ turns out he was hiding more that I thought and came clean and thought that would help.......... never speaking to him again!
I had a similiar case happen to me. Me and my girlfriend were dating for about 5-6 months and went to college for a semester in a city 4 hours away. Everything started great, we would text most of the day with "i miss you" blah blah blah. Then she started hanging out with a lot of different guys and stuff. It doesnt bother me, i dont get jealous easily, but I notice. I visit monthly, because of the drive thats all i can do, but on the 4th month i come back with a 3 week break, within the first week we run into problems. Guys kept calling her phone asking to hang out, and texting her all the time. I asked her if everything was ok, she just said they like to hang. So I offered to hang out with them, she said no. Second week comes around, we break up because I wasnt "good enough" for her. A few months go bye, im heart broken, and we start talking again (Big Mistake), and we get back together. Make sure you dont, they dont change, we broke up a month later, and all i got to show for it was a heart already torn, torn again. Some people change, but if someone treats you like that they wont.
yes I am trying, he won't stop trying to contact me stating he hasn't "slept" with anyone so he is innocent.... Blah blah blah same old, so I am out and about in town this weekend! Trying to find somewheres to be but anywhere that he can find me lol. @_@ What was I thinking in the first place?
move on, life is not over. there are so many nice guys out there, why to waste time with someone who hides things and do all that crap to you. you have no reason to get back with him
Not sure why the Skype question is relevant? ... Yes I have moved on, even seen a friend but felt bad about that... True there is nothing to go back to, just lies and "checking up" on me I guess... Just have to learn to STOP REPLYING to his emails!
