So I've been seeing this girl for about a month. I met her at a rave so I guess I should've expected this but I didn't know it would be so bad. All her friends are druggie kids who literally do nothing but hang out and do drugs with one another. I'm talking like hanging out at what looks like a crackhouse with kids as young as 14 snorting speed, meth, drinking, oxys, weed, just nonstop fiending all night with no sleep. Maybe I'm sheltered, but I've never seen people this deep into drugs like this, not to mention at that age... The thing is she isn't a big drug user... she just drinks, smokes weed and does some MDMA at raves. She said she used to be really shy and didn't have many friends in school until she started smoking weed, I think that's why she hangs out with these people... to fit in. And when she's drunk they make fun of her in a really mean way... not like real friends should treat each other. I like her but I can't hang out with people like that. I don't really know what to do.
Why would you not like someone for the people they hang out with? If she isnt a big drug user than let her know you dont like to be around her friends and you hate it when drugs are used excessively. And By the way, I am around people as young as 13 who do blow, ecstacy, mush, Marijuana, excessively drink and bad mouth their friends when they are too fucked up to function. You know what I do about it? Not a damn thing, I sit and watch. I observe them and take notes of how much better my life is to not drown myself in drugs. But I do on occasion take hits, shots and rarely do lines. But I never go overboard and usually only do those at parties. It's easy to control yourself anyone can do it, its just a matter of background and emotional stability. Her friends obviously have parental and mental issues. Not really there fault in a sense. But yeah, if you have to chill with her friends just ignore them. And if some of them are beyond underage, beatup the kid who lets them get high. Morally its the right thing to do, socially its not. And one last thing, ask her about her friends. Let her know they are very young and are into drugs most dont do until there early teens and thats something you dont wanna be around. I am sure she would understand, a 14 year old cracked out and blackout drunk? I personally would be inclined to sit him down and have a loooong talk. GL, and dont forget who you like and dont like. Dont hate her for her they way her friends live there life, and most importantly! DONT INVOLVE YOURSELF WITH THEM 14 year old crackheads will just drag you down and will make sure when they crash you burn.
Dude, I know the exact kind of people you're talking about. I don't really have any info... But I know what you mean.
