My girlfriend was in a bad relationship before me and victim to a woman that conned her out of almost 25 thousand dollars. The same woman has done it to other lesbian women because they can be the most vurnerable and try to hold onto their partners stronger. Im not sure if my gf's ex was even a lesbian or just played one to extort money but thats not the point the point is Im HERE now and I LOVE my girlfriend with my whole heart. Shes made a youtube channel and a blog to try to help women from falling prey to her ex. I am feeling really selfish because I just want it to stop mattering so much. I know she wants to help people but how much more of her time on this earth should be given to this?
Ramazing when someone has been through something as traumatic as your partner has it might be a long time before she gets over it completely. The work she is doing in my opinion is her way of dealing with it,a type of self therapy if you will. All I can say is tell her how you feel while also making her realize how important her work is and ask her to make more time for you. Hope it works out for you both Regards Jay
I'm sorry about this.. I think that all you can really do is try to help her work through it and give it some time. Best of luck to the both of you.
