Cursed to only clitoral..

I am 20. I do kegals alot. I clitoral orgasm easily and powerfully, feel like I have to pee afterwards so I do and its clear so it's clearly quirt just doesn't shoot out. I've lately been studying Tantra and am working on radiating out these orgasms through my body and making them last longer.
But whatever, id sacrifice these powerful clit orgasms to have g spot and 'deep spot' and anal orgasms. Deep spot being the anterior .. here's a video on deep spot
http://masterful-lover.com/blog/deep-spot-orgasms/the-official-deep-spot-video/#comments

I've fingered my g spot and have a g spot toy. I've used both and a vibrators on mu clot, I get the ballooning out, pee feeling then I push, and huge squirt but it doesn't feel good it just feels like pee peeing. Of course I scream and moan for my boyfriend.
We have sex alot. I'm small but I have wide hips and large Hispanic butt and he's small s im wondering if that's why I don't feel much. Women say they just explode squirt all over and shake when on top, but when I'm on top going at it hard, I don't feel much, even if I do its not anything close to what these women describe. Also, positions where I have to hold myself up and do work just feel like exactly that: work.if I'm using my muscles and stuff I can't just relax and focus on pleasure.
Anal sometimes feels quite good bit as soon as it feels real good, guess what? Poop! Of course!
My boyfriend tells me its my mindset, lately I've been very tuned in to feeling pleasure but still nothing but clitoral orgasms. So I know what to do I have my equipment but still nothing. Am I one of the few women that can only experience one type of orgasm? What do I do?

P.s.. I'm aware that I'm 20 and there could potentially be lots of sex out there for me. I've also thought it.may be beneficial for me to have sex with a guy with lots of girth. But my boyfriend is who I want to be with the rest of my life.

Oh and, I actually just tried to give myself a vaginal orgasm, but seems I somehow have had a clit orgasm? Yet again..as if my body is saying nope this is all you get. Marijuana made me very aroused but my boyfriend doesn't Want me to smoke and have sex..
and guess what?
I'm even allergic to marijuana! So my lungs are on fire while the rest of mefeels good! Go me. :/

After I went at it in my vagina tonight, I feel a sharp pain in my upper vagina/cervix uterus..?

 

Oh and..I realize that alot of the time sex gets better with age, bit my life has sucked and I don't want a quarter of my life to pass before I experience mind blowing sex.

 

clitoral orgasms are still amazing...
i would just persevere. i had my first g spot orgasm like, 5 years after i started masturbating.

 

I've been masturbating 9 years have toys yet still nothing. Also my nipples are inverted so I don't have breast pleasure.
I WANT TO CRY. I CAN'T HAVE ANYTHING IN LIFE NOT EVEN AMAZING SEX...
:'[

 

people are different. complaining that you can't orgasm from only vaginal stimulation is pointless. i think you're probably focussing way too much on having a perfect orgasm instead of just doing what feels good and enjoying yourself.

 

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Wrong. I do enjoy myself bit still only one type of orgasm. So try I'm complaining, just thought I can actually release some emotion on the internet. Guess not. Sorry.
Really really frustrated I spent 200 dollars on toys only for the same sensations as fingers.

 

My latest girlfriend can't orgasm, ever. Count your blessings my dear. You can only change your mindset so much.

 

Don't worry about having just clitoral orgasms. It still feels good (emotionally) to have sex with your boyfriend right?

A trick you can do is while he is having sex with you, you can stimulate your clitoris with your hand. It's easiest to do if you are on your stomach (and he's getting you from behind.

Oh and make it very clear to your boyfriend that it's not his fault.

You are learning things about your body and how to pleasure yourself. You figured out that your g-spot and vaginal sex just doesn't do it for you. Trust me, that's not uncommon!

 

Thank you for your kind words. Yes I rub my clit during sex and it feels great. Just wish my body would have the radiating long lasting vaginal orgasm so many women speak of..I wonder if I rubbed my clit during anal i think that would feel goood. I'm scared of pooping though. Id like to get a colonic.
Also, my boyfriend does not have much girth. I sent him an email if girth increasing exercises hopefully hell understand.
I seem to be in a better mood today, thank you guys for lifting my spirits

 

Not everybody can squirt. I'd like to be the one who debunks that myth right here and right now. I have had both g-spot and clitoral orgasms, they are still very similar in nature and feeling (but I know the difference because of the area stimulated), but I've never had any fluid with the g-spot orgasms. I assume that since I can't do it, not everyone can, and I'm perfectly okay with that.

 

wasn't saying you can't complain and/or express emotion, not what I intended.

and sending your guy emails about how to make his dick bigger is a really bad idea. no guy will take that well.

 

That's exactly right. My second wife was the only chick I ever knew that could orgasm regularly just from vaginal intercourse-she was just real sensitive that way.the other girls, usually they needed some help from Miss Clitty-one of my exes could only orgasm from my tongue on her clit. Another one just had this habit of always masturbating herself while we were fucking-that would always bring her over the edge. My current wife has only occasionally orgasmed vaginally.

Everybody's different. If you keep telling yourself something's wrong with you, you'll go crazy. Just relax and enjoy what you've got.

 

I just know there's exercises some called 'jelqing' to increase girth. I'm a large hip Hispanic woman taking a small white dick and there's just not a lot of sensation. So I'm interested in these exercises

 

if there was a way to increase penis size, trust me, we'd all know about it

 

http://www.thundersplace.org/forum/showthread.php?t=28124

There ya go. These nerds have increased their girth.

 

Someone told.me the book 'the guide to getting it on' is great. However not sure if it lists anything that I haven't tried

 

I would like to point out a couple of facts...
1. the G spot's existence is still debated somewhat
2. ALL female orgasm's are mainly from clitoral stimulation.

The anatomy of the clitoris isn't just the little button that protrudes when erect, it's a much larger organ.
Going from what can be seen it continues up under the pelvic bone, curves back down and splits into two lobes that surround the urethra and vagina. When aroused those lobes also become engorged and exert pressure on the vaginal walls.



So often when trying to stimulate the "G-spot" in actuality you are stimulating internal parts of the clitoris. The majority of the nerve endings are located in glans clitoris, but enough are present elsewhere to provide pleasure when stimulated.


That concludes your anatomy lesson for the day.

 

Thar was very informative I didn't know the insides if vagina look lite thay

 

Well the other night I had my boyfriend stimulate my g spot for about 45 minutes. I kept feeling the familiar increasing need to pee sensation and finally pushed out the squirt. But as usual it wasn't an orgasm it was just 'peeing' out the liquid the pushing produced.
Oh well don't know why I keep trying I mean that's about the millionth tine I experiences the same thing like I never have new sensations

 

All women are different. I've been with women who cannot orgasm whatsoever. And others where its quick and explosive!
Learn more about tantra.. Drop some acid, light some incense and candles, maybe a blacklight, and just go at it. That will be a mind blowing experience haha