my boyfriend broke up with me 3 days ago..he wants to stay friends and i guess im ok with that. there is a little hope because he says there is a possibility of getting back together once school evens out. the thing is is he doesnt love me and i'm crazy in love with him. do i need to let go? do i need to move on or just be patient with him? thanks for the help!
Wallflower we all deserve to be loved. I know it is probably not what you want to hear but maybe you should look for someone who will love you as much as you love them. It must be pretty painfull knowing he does not feel the same about you as you do about him and I dont think it is fair for you to hang on and wait just in case he changes his mind, because if you do, not only could you be wasting your time, prolonging the hurt but you could also be missing out on an opportunity to find real happiness and love. It sounds to me his "wait until school evens out" excuse is just a way of keeping you hanging around in case he cant find something better. I Hope I am wrong and everything turns out okay for you guys Jay
you need to move on , sorry but that "lets be friends" bit almost never works out .Its your life look forward and put the past behind you , easier said than done i know but you have got to try . Peace be with you
Move on Wallflower! Seriously! This is me being serious. Ignore him completely and let him come crawling to you, and then! Ignore him. Move on. When he comes to you tell him you need space and you'll be friends with him later.
^ This further confirms my theory that a friend of mine has some kinda of supernatural power with women. He isn't what you call a womanizer, he's just dated lots of women in serious relationships one after the other since his late high school days. The kicker is that he's remained friends with each and every one of them and I'm talking about over 8 girls/women. Also he's had ex's meet each other and also become friends. ^(This is a rare phenomenon right?)
