Me and my girlfriend have experienced our second threesome with a mutual friend. We enjoyed ourselves so much with this second female that we are wanting to take this further, make a commitment to her as well as each other. Anyone have any experience with this type of situation? We are wondering if this commitment would take the relationship to a place where we all may enjoy each other without all three of us being involved. More of an open relationship between the three of us, anyone know if this can work? Will we develope jealous feelings if two enjoy the company more than the other? Any help or any stories on this subject would be welcome.
3sums can be great but just remember that once you take a third person into any relationship then your original relationship will change. it may be for the better, maybe not, but be aware it will not remain the same. Simon :sunny:
Had a MFM threesome with my wife and a bloke she met and became friends with on Twitter. He had done threesomes, foursomes and gang-bangs before and being a professional person he was and still is very discreet. The wife loved it. She likes having more than one man paying her attention and she also liked the spit roasting. We can't do FMF as she is so much more insecure than me. I would love to do FMF but reality takes precedence because if we ever did it she would never get over it. I also took her to a blokes house for a shag without me since he lost his nerve for a threesome. The only thing that bothered me was not being there and having to hang around until they were done. I love watching her but the submissive cuckold isn't really my bag. I like participating and the woman can take on a lot more than two of us. I think she could handle 3 or 4 easily. After that she would get bored and turn on the telly
dudes i have had 3 3somes with different 3rds in the last six months... and we still wish the one 3rd would come back but she dont wanna cheat on her bf... and we aint into full swap... sad...
I think whether or not it could work, really depends on what your goals are down the road. Like, if you know for sure you want a traditional family, then it's kind of in poor taste to waste the 3rd's time. But if you think there's a chance that you'd be open to having a bit different of a family, then I think it could work. Also, I think one person is going to have to be the focus of the relationship and the other two being ok with that. Ideally, it would be you and both of your women are into you enough that they want to commit to you; then them liking each other is almost secondary. The two women should like each other much in a sense like a best friend that no matter what they won't part with one another; anything less could lead to a situation where one gets pissed at the other about something and everything goes to shit. If they are committed to each other in the sense that I mentioned, it leaves room for healthy anger (just as one would get mad at you) and then continuing a relationship. Obviously, I don't know for sure what can and will work because I haven't done it; but knowing what I know about communication and based on the workability of my relationships, I would say I'm pretty damn close to hitting some key issues in making such a relationship work.
