Boyfriend's nude photos online

I need some help because I have no idea how to react to this. I have been with my boyfriend for about 9 months now and everything is going great. I have recently discovered a nude photo of him online that was posted way before I met him.the photo is posted on a blog by another girl.there are a few other very explicit photos where I am not sure but suspect that they are photos of him as well. I really don't know how I should and wether I should address it with him. Should I ask him have the person on the blog take off the pictures?
Just to give a little bit of background my bf used to have his own blog where he would share his sexual fantasies and post stuff.when we started dating he stopped blogging and then deleted the blog when I asked him to.now I found these pictures...I am not really sure if I am comfortable with this. It is his past and I shod not have anything to do with it.But what do you think?
P.s. the comment from that other girl under the photo says "a really good fuck,makes my pussy dripping wet"...

 

He has no contorl over this other person. He did what youasked him to do and you know his past. He could ask her but I don't think she will. If he is that good and you love or like him and he is with you, consider yourself lucky to have found someone who can take care of you and listen to you when you ask him to do something for you.

 

sounds a lil scary if you ask me. i'd confront him about it and ask him who she is. besides he might want to know some chick is spreading his pics all over the net. the longer you hold it off, the more it will eat away at you.

 

The thing i know of this chick because he has told me about her before .they had a purely sexual relationship. She talks ab him in a few post ab the fact that she is an art students and they have this "arrangement" and that he is her inspiration bla bla...this was over a year ago and it shouldn't concern me.he is with me now and has no contact with her...and I see the point that I shouldn't say anything because really he has no control over the stuff somebody posted online and it was long ago.plus I really don't want him to contact her for this reason.its just that the thought of this stuff existing somewhere on the Internet is yuckk!!
Also I kinda wonder if some of the pics posted on her blog are his too it is of a guy and a girl having sex ,you can really see the face but the body I sorta can recognize...idk if it is him it is kinda disturbing that he has this stuff on the Internet...

 

why don't you talk to him. ask if he knew re the photos, and say you feel uncomfortable. be honest and see what he says.

 

yeah i agree w/ linda cool. kinda leary about her saying "we have this arrangement" though. you should def bring it up somehow

 

I would have a talk about it.

But everyone has a past, it makes them the person that you know now

 

You should to talk to him , make sure its all over between your bf and the other girl . Dont wory about the pics , there are lots of pics on the net . desert rat

 

do you also tell him what to wear, and what job he is allowed to have, and when he can see his family?

 

If it was before you were with him then I feel that it is a done issue.

You have the right to ask him but he also has the right to state that was the past and not relevant to your relationship.

 

Just a simple conversation on it would be good to clear the story

Had simular situation, nothing improved but got worse so I just
simply stayed out of it.

 

Honestly, I'd let it go and say nothing.

 

Let it go hun, nothing good can come from bring this up, especially after he already deleted his sexual blog. Just enjoy your man and see if you can recreate some of those pictures, im sure you can do a better job than that other chick Have fun

 

Who would have thought that someone with an online blog about their sexual fantasies would take naked pictures of themselves?

 

Past is the past. The actions that we all took helped shape the individuals that we are today. Honestly confronting him about it will only cause trouble. He took care of what he has control over, and that should be more than good enough. Sides- everyone has some history eventually! No reason to try to deny it!

If the thought of the other woman having sexual interest in your boyfriend, think of it this way- He isn't with her anymore and that you are with him now. So you chose each other over the people from your own pasts. Let go and enjoy your man and feel happy that he has a past before you!

 

I really only opened this thread because the title made me think I'd see your boyfriend naked.

Just thought I'd air my disappointment.

I wouldn't worry about the pictures it's really not a big deal

 

So your boyfriend has a past, and? If he was responding to the girl that has his dick posted on her blog (or whatever site it's on) then I could see being upset. How did you find the picture? Did you search her name and find it, or just stumble across the site of your boyfriends ex fuck friend by accident? If you sought out the info, then ask yourself why you were snooping, and stop doing it. If it was by accident, damn...it really is a small world isn't it.

Get over it, or let it bug the crap out of you ....your choice.

 

^Ha! Exactly what I thought. Internet stalking your boyfriend = insecure behavior.

Not that I wouldn't do it...
I'd be tickled if I saw his ex-lover called him a fantastic fuck

 

The mods take down threads with naked pics in them , and links to sites with naked pics on them . Naked pics. are all over the net and are easy to find . I see ladies that look a little like some pics I have and wounder , is that her ? p.m. me if you really need links . desert rat

 

Hell, my boyfriend has pictures of a girl he used to screw deep down in his archives, I've seen it on multiple occasions (not snooping!). It kind of bothered me at first until I saw his reaction to finding that picture. That look on his face was priceless. And she's really REALLY...um...well...not naked shot worthy anyway, so it just makes me laugh every time we come across those pictures. Don't know why he never deleted them, don't really care. That was a long time ago and she's no longer a part of his life, so there's no reason to be jealous.