Girls, what do you think of guys masturbating or watching porn?

I find Porn so intimidating if i find it on my boyfriends computer i will go mad, i know that sounds pathetic but thats how i feel.
all the girls on the videos are usually so enthusiastic with what they say during the sex video that it makes me feel like i have to be like that.
I think it is so demeaning to women because if a virgin watches porn (to get tips or whatever...) they will have a different perseption of what sex is supposed to be like.

 

even a virgin knows how ridiculously fake most of that is.

most porn dirty talk is also a pretty big turnoff.

 

girl on girl, fisting, anal i dont really mind as long as theres no cheesy music in the background thats a right turn off, i have 1 main site i use but if im not wrong im not allowed to post links sorry lol

 

well they are fake as much as in every movie...from the ones that I have seen though, porn its not that bad;
you get to see unbelievable things happening and in most cases you can't take that stuff seriously, anyway for boys to exercise over porn i think that this is normal and i also think that women get curious about it, at least at some point at their life, they want to see how and what is happening...

 

Lol, pressure to be enthusiastic?

Your boyfriends a lucky guy

 

I'd be a bit suspicious if he didn't!!

 

You mean THAT'S what he's doing in his "man-cave"??? Shocking! As long as it is in addition to and not replacement for me... meh. Party on...

 

What about when it turns into something more personal? Like live stream sex video? paying for 10 or 15 or however minutes inside a gold show to watch someone putting on a show personaly for my boyfriend. We have a killer sex life and he knows im always down to put out... Why do men do this? im not prepared to get upset at him about it but i need to understand it and cannot address it with him. Any comments?

 

Hot! Just nooo gay porn please.

 

I love when people feel comfortable With me so I enjoy it a lot

 

lol i wouldn't care if my bf watched porn, because i watch it sometimes and yip i get turned on(who wouldn't?) BUT! if i thought he would prefer a porno to me, then ill find which one he is fascinated with and give it to him like that...If i find he's in to some fucking animals or just wanting a cock up his ass? :\ fucking animals i won't accept, cock up his ass ill let slide if he just leaves it to me with those strap on dicks or something lol

 

If it's wrong to expect enthusiasm then I don't wanna be right. What fun is that?

 

I think what he may have meant is he can't get it up even when no one is around and there is no mental pressure on him. Getting it up for sex can be very mentally difficult for some guys (has probably happened to everyone) sometimes because of performance anxiety rather than not being attracted to the person you're with. Getting it up from porn while no one else is around is much easier and more consistent because it's something most people are less likely to over think.

 

Who doesnt watch porn I mean really....

 

I'm totally fine with it - as long as it doesn't interfere with our own
sex life - like a substitute - it's good with me, I watch it too sometimes.

 

I do it so why shouldnt my guy do it as well.

 

Neither bother me. Unless (like howlyourname said), porn becomes more exciting and desirable than me. THEN, it's a problem. But, as long as it doesn't, porn is fantastic.

 

Porn is apart of my life as much as the internet and eBay is. My wife doesnt like it tho. :'(

 

If I had a boyfriend I'd watch porn with him.. I like porn, I watch it myself, I don't see a problem with it as long as it doesn't become a problem.

 

we are all human beings with needs, my girlfriend has always liked to watch porn - it depends on the mood of things obviously, as with everything in life.