So I asked a Lady for her number, Advice?

Just because someone is married doesnt mean they dont enjoy socializing or gaining attention from strangers. It reminds us that we've still "got it" There's no reason to tell someone who is being sweet to fuck off... it's human nature to connect with others.
I guess the next time I go out I should wear a huge flashing beacon on my forehead that says "do not approach or make eye contact. I'm married" ?? LOL

 

well ive been told to F off before and it worked rely well, I'm guessing I want her type nor mine,

maybe try it out with a small beacon and if your getting some great results upgrade to a bigger beacon with more lights and maby a noise maker ,


I under stand what your saying and it makes perfect sence,

I still think honsty is the best policy, you could still connect with people and make them aware that your married at the same time ,

 

My wedding rings are honest and haven't left my hand in 15 years (next month)

Often times men make far too many assumptions - just because an interesting woman speaks to you kindly in a public place it doesn't necessarily mean that she wants to hook up with you. And just because she's out dancing with her friends and having a few drinks doesn't automatically mean she's on the market or on the prowl.

Here's something to consider.....did you tell her your relationship status?????

 

Has this thread transformed into a coming out thread yet? Waiting...

 

did she reply:"i am not a number, i am a free woman"?
she should have.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ich5IlYm3PY"]Bitches, man. - YouTube

 

Aw, maybe just the wrong lady for you.

Perhaps the next time you are out you will instead meet a lady who is more interested.

 

if you want to actually get to know a woman you have to hump her. and if you want to hump her you have to do it before you get to know her.

 

Ha Ha nope not yet need a few more pages before I open my door,

 

So yesterday I had 2 missed calls on my phone from the same number

it was from a house number not a mobile so after work I called it and a lady answered the phone she had an acent but didnt sound like the lady from the other night,

When I said I was returning a missed call from this number she said you must be mistaken I didnt call you

that pissed me off a bit because all mobiles have caller ID and thats how I got the number to call back ,

I said In my reply, Yes you did it says so on my mobile.

after more denyeing she explaned it might have been her flat mate " I asked for the flat mate's and it was a bloke's name that I have never heard before,

Oh and I went out in the same spot last night not the same club just the street I didnt see her,

Time to move onto biger and better things I think ,

 

Maybe not.

Girls are confused (men too). If you've been around girls, especially young ones, you won't believe how much they gossip with their friends about how to fend off men who are trying to pick them up. It's part of their pride mechanism and boosts their ego enormously to know they are rejecting someone's advances. So when someone like you comes up to them it's an automatic reaction. It's nothing to do with whether they like you or not, the reaction comes first and what their friends have told them about how to act becomes more important than their feelings.

 

I just have to say that I LOVE that you said you "had a bit of a dance"

It seems like you are a pushy flirt. That sort of thing usually scares me off.

Relax and be natural. Don't have an agenda or a strategy.

 

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Cheers Glen.

 

not today my friend

 

The the reason why we only had a bit of a dance and then I went straight in for the kill

asking for the number is because normaly I forget to ask for the number r am just

to drunk and we all know ladys dont like a blind drunk fella hittting on them

drunk at the end of the night'

My only intention about geting that part out of the way early was so then I wouldn't

have to worrie about it later and risk either forgetting to ask or being two drunk that it

would be a turn off,

So I wouldnt say im a pushy flirt, Just not to good at it and a bit rough around the edges,

I've got the approach down pat but if it's to loud to hear or they turn out to be boreing

thats my biggest challange

 

in the united kingdom at least - no.

other than look - there's a distinction because of the 'last call'.


to answer the original question

i'd leave it.

things are supposed to be easy

and if it's not easy

what's the point??

 

Actually, I have one more advice...since this is an advice thread. I would focus on picking up women during the day, and sober. Cafes, parks, and share activities are my friends.

I feel the daytime is a more even playing field for men. The one thing I am glad for after I`ve stopped drinking is that I can now go out at night exclusively to dance. When I drank, I would feel needy and start playing the losing game of trying to pick up a chick in nightlife in spite of myself, which essentially feels like the lottery.

Aside from the fact that most women seem go out with cockteasing and attention-whoring as their sole purpose in mind and determined to turn down any male advances regardless of whom you are or do, or whether they are single or not.

Examples in this thread.

 

I think you are just about right on the money,

On my next day off i might just explore the city and see what comes about,

But then how do you know if the single?

 

I would leave that up to them to inform me. Good luck.

 

Yes. It is an effective tactic. It it shows her that you really want her, which will foster reciprocity. She wouldn't have smiled otherwise. She will call, be patient.