embarrased and confused? help?

sort version..guy asked girl out
girl froze and didnt say anything...
girl goes and asks guy if he was serious and he says yes..i talk about you all the time..
a little while after girl finds out guy is talking to another girl..but still asked her out..girl trys to have convo with guy...

GIRL..hey dru, its sammy! miss seeing you in math class! but i wanted to talk to you about some stuff.
GUY...sammm!! miss you too! what do you needa share?
GIRL....when you asked me out a while ago i hesitated because i thought you had a gf. i didnt say anything before because i didnt exactly know what to say to you.. just been thinking about this and i want to know whats really up
**girl texts him this message at like 2 45 and he doesnt reply till like 8 somethng at night**
GUY..sorry i had a lacrosse and football game. well yeah, now im talking to someone,real sorry! ;/
GIRL...hey dru its okay you missed out on a good opportunity and im sorry for you but its okay we can still be friends...hope your games went well!
GUY...yeah definitely, i miss you sam! ( GUYS WHATS UP WITH HIM TELLING ME HE MISSES ME) and ha yeah thanks we won both games!

and after that he didnt get a text back...why would he say he misses me...what...?

 

Sound's like you showing him that him seeing someone else doesn't bother you and its his loss not yours has made him wonder if he has he done the right thing , so by him sayin he misses you that kinda insures that you know he still wants you so if it all goes down the pan with this girl he can try again with you and say he never stopped liking you. Its a classic iv seen it many times before im telling you men think were idiots lol hope it works out for you whatever happens. X

 

Or he... you know... misses you? Since you're friends?

I tell my female friends that I miss them all the time, and it means exactly what I mean it to say. I miss them, because it's been a little while since I've seen them and I wouldn't mind talking to and seeing them again. Doesn't mean anything beyond that. No desires of anything more than just talking to them.

 

you brought up missing him first... then he rejected you but didn't want to be a complete dick about it so he mentioned missing you again to show that he does think you're ok, you just blew it when you shot him down the first time.

where do you get off telling him he missed out on a good opportunity? you rejected him so he moved on! for fuck sake, is he supposed to sit and pine for you until he dies?

things like this post are the reason that the bold is sometimes true.

 

I'm with undies...the added 'you missed out' is spiteful

 

I can't ur like annoying why read into it do u want him or not ? No? The who gives a shit! Damn I swaire girls like this are so sad stop making drama out of nothing life is far more simple if u just let it be simple

 

Yeah, I have to agree there as well. You said no to him, and yet he missed out? You didn't take him at his word (that he was asking you out, because he was single)... I'd say it was you that missed out?

 

I agree with Eruantion . A lot of girls I've dealt with always think I'm trying to say something beyond what i say. When in fact, I say what I mean and I mean what I say. It's pretty simple really, there's no code, no riddle. It is what it is.

 

^^Everyone knows girls add little tests here and there and think of some hidden agenda behind everything

 

Lol I don't do that I just fuck n suck

 

maybe this is why everyone thinks you're a guy.

 

Girls don't fuck n suck?

 

You don't know fun girls

 

they do, but only after adding little tests and hidden agendas.

 

Eh I just wanna have fun

 

I do i do

 

Where are u from sugar ?

 

Is that at me brynn don't hate

 

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