If you go out on a date with a guythat you meet on a dating website and the guy is very touchy feely and seems to be interested ....saw a movie and had a nice dinner good conversation...calls and texts u the next day as usual ..still having decent conversation few days later...Guy is still texting to say "whats up' and everything seems cool...then you make an attempy to say whats up and they come back with "hey shouldnt u be sleeping?" Now things seem different and the guy is all over FB but doesnt seem as attentive and talkative as before. Did I do something wrong? Should I just dead it and move on? Delete all contact ?? He has continued to text here and there "rise and shine, up and at em'" .."hey its nice out" just random stuff...idk
why are you doing anything?you had 1 date...neither owes the other anything..and saying he is all over facebook?...come on...1 date and he should stop contacting fb friends? ...hope he brings a ring on the next date ?
Why don't you ask him that question??? As far as the comment goes, I've said the same thing to girls before, just being a bit sarcastic and trying to be funny. Like if it's late at night and I knew she had to be up early. I don't think that comment to gauge his level of interest. Wouldn't it be a lot easier to just ask him instead of trying to guess?
Sisters and fabulous bros. Please. Let's all just chill and not over analyze. Don't be a psycho. Why so much insecurity? It's tres unappealing. WE ALL deserve better.
Don't freak out and read into his every move (or fb activity), if he's not interested he's not interested... What worries me is that he might try to get sex sexual favors from you, you might oblige to earn his affection, he might not call you, and you might have an emotional meltdown and sink into a deep depression. I don't have to know you to not want that for you, so please nurture your own sense of self-worth and don't worry about what's going on in this guy's head.
if i go out on a date with a guy, i had better be being paid well for it... ok seriously, it's really hard to say with the little bit of information you gave. his comment could have easily been a joke. or, have you been calling/texting him incessantly? i know if someone doesn't give me ANY space, i'll quickly become less attentive/talkative. and in that case, if the person were to text me when i'm trying to sleep i may come back with something like "shouldn't you be sleeping." if i responded at all.
analysis "hey shouldnt u be sleeping?"...is a slang term used to inquire about the sleeping habits of a friend or family member....the word ''hey'' means that he is using it as a term of endearment....the word ''u'' just means that you text too much and need to spell out out entire words in the forum...
Stay off of Facebook, it's a fraud, doesn't enhance life at all. He sounds like he ain't interested except maybe for a quick sex hook up when he wants one. Put him on ice, see what he does. Or, better, go have some fun with another guy or three.
The text means nothing.. However, i think theres a possibility that the guy may not be interested. Think about it, if he isn't willing to become your bf (for whatever reason, maybe u're just not his type physically, maybe he met someone else, there could be hundreds of other reasons), that doesn't mean he can't be nice to u. I mean the date went well and he could act friendly with u simply cuz he's a nice person who doesn't want to reject u in a mean way. In conclusion, just ask him out again, see if he's interested. If he keeps stalling or simply says no, u'll have your answer.
I can`t say that I am surprised by the answers on this thread, but it still baffles me that anyone would think that he is the one who`s not interested. So, he texts you regularly. You`ve only texted him once in your life, and he is the one who`s demonstrating a lack of interest because you`re not the only one he communicates with on Facebook? -------------- If he`s anything like me, he probably thinks you`re too much of a princess. But, he isn`t anything like me: - he took you out on a date - he texted you to say it was a nice day - he responds with humor to a late night text, which I would interpret as a way to check on me to see if I was with another girl None of which I would have done. So, my advice is...give the guy a chance. When are you going to match his initiative? Why don`t you invite him out to a movie? Maybe he is just trying to keep you at arm`s length as a sexual option (which, contrary to the monogamy police, I think is completely natural, healthy, and ethical), and the problem is that he is passive-aggressively pursuing sex because he feels being direct would be met with rejection. And, it sounds to me like you`re passive-aggressively vying for commitment by waiting around for the guy to shed enough one-sided attention onto you that you`re convinced he likes you. You guys make a nice couple. Sounds like two people are going to tie the knot soon. :biggrin:
I only texted him once at 9pm because before we met we were texting and talking at all hours it wasnt a big deal. He was very touchy feely as in touching my hair, squeezing my leg (because he knows i work out regularly and I guess he wanted to feel the muscle), touching the small of my back while leading me out. He called me the next day as usual and texted me. Then he's been randomly texting but I felt a change. So I figured he wasnt interested and we weren't going to be friends so I removed him from FB only to get a late night text--11pm--but i was asleep. Next morning i hit him up before i went to work so he says "Hey...what happened? I don't speak to you for one day and you delete me?". I just thought we were done as is usually the case with guys who r not interested which is what i explained to him. He says "I'm not that easily read". I really dont know what to think .
Exactly what I was thinking. He's probably thinking you're not interested - you've only texted him once, after all. It sounds like he's doing all the work, what more do you expect him to do.
