I've never had a relationship with a girl.

I fucked a guy once and didn't particularly enjoy it. It was more like I was just masturbating mutually. It actually disgusted me too to a certain degree. It was easy cause he just asked if I wanted to fuck and thought I'd give it a shot. Were still really good friends, but we haven't done anything sexual since. He has a committed boyfriend now too.

I've always liked girls in some romantic way though, even when I was like 5. Girls have been interested in me before, and I've been interested in them. However, I never really dated anyone, because I was afraid of some kind of rejection or something.

There was this chick I was hanging out with the other night, and we kind of started flirting, but somehow I managed to not cease on certain opportunities and allowed myself to fall into the friend zone. I really just want to experience love before the world ends or a die prematurely or something. I don't know how to break past that barrier or take risks. Like she commented on my hair, and it would have been the perfect opportunity to really rachet up the flirting, but I didn't. I just need to grow a pair and take some risks I think. I think not getting laid is more detrimental to my well being than one particular rejection from one particular girl.

 

I kinda understand where you are coming from, cuz i am a really shy person. I am never the one to make the first move. im like physically incapable. But honestly, you just have to go for it. Put yourself out there, and if you get rejected, move on. It's better than flirting back and forth with someone for a year without it going anywhere. Then you'll always wonder what could have happened, or what it could have been like, how you could have worked together.... and you dont want to have to live with that wonder...... its a bitch. trust me. soo if youre feelin it, and you think she's feelin it, just go for it... if she rejects you, at least you'll know what the deal is and you can move onto someone you can actually have a relationship with. Good luckkkk

 

Thanks man. I just feel cold and isolated all the time, almost to where I've gotten used to it. I strive for genuine closeness and all that. I've been having these paranoid thoughts recently, wondering if true love exists or not, if its all some type of hyped up thing that isn't real. Its kind of scarring me actually.

 

Do you know what your type of girl is? Maybe you need a shy girl with a very passionate & pure heart that can blend in with your shy-ness & sensitivity/passion. Just fish around; I`m sure you`ll find someone who will be good for you! Always remember though, CONFIDENCE IS KEY!!! eace:

 

Oh thanks. I'll keep that in mind.

 

I FELT LIKE THAT FOR A LONG TIME TOO!!!!! you will find someone to have that relationship with.

 

:sunny:

this is so true.

 

unless he's one of the rare people that doesn't.

 

Dont listen to that, thats just what they say so they dont have to admit how neurotic they are.

Do the exact opposite, act like you are the type that cant tie his own shoelaces without a girlfriend, totally whippable. You'll be spending Sat afternoons at Wal-mart helping her pick out table settings in no time.

You're too confident at the moment, too full of life thats your problem, you only bother with the ones you want to shag.

Walk around with your head down, look like you've been awake all of the last 72 hours i.e. you've already had the life sucked out of you. Talk to ugly chics in front of their hot friends, say stuff (in a oh-single-life-is-so-depressing kind of tone) that you love it when a girls does all those little things for you.

You'll be a total chic magnet.