My wife enjoys being rimmed and touched (During sex) and whenever I get curious enough to stick a finger in (With her permission), it doesn't go in easily. We're using KY lube and taking it slow with her laying on her back but the few times I got a finger in, about an inch in, it hurts her. Is there something we're doing wrong or something else we should try? Thanks!
My girlfriends the same way. enjoys when I rub her asshole or put just about a half inch in. Also likes when I lick her. I personally think its more of the mental part of anal. Maybe a female or someone more experienced can help but thats my thought!
It is likely mental. You need much more foreplay, consider adding alcohol/pot/etc. this can help relaxation tremendously.
What an amateur. Refer to my past posts and you will learn that the key to anal is preparation, both physical and mental. Most important is mental preparation: she must have the desire to get fucked in the ass. Anal whores are the best because they always have it, but Snow White princesses need to be slowly broached and worked into it. If she doesn't have the desire, don't bother trying because her asshole will be too dry and tight.
it works best for me once my boyfriend has spent a lot of time on my pussy. by the time he goes to my ass im so in the zone and relaxed that he can do almost anything to it. almost.
My boyfriend wants to do anal. although i do not. however since i am open minded, i have let him try. and he pretty much gets the head in, and it feels like my asshole is splitting in half!!!!! Like it truly does hurt....... It probably is mostly just a mental thing tho. lol.......
Have you tried different positions? My first attempt at Anal was using the stereotype Doggy Position, which I presumed from having seen so many porn videos to be the most natural approach. However, I found this approach awkward to achieve initial penetration, as well as being painful once penetration had been achieved. But when I moved on to try the standard Missionary Position, it wasn't much different to normal Vaginal penetration, as far as ease of penetration was concerned, and it wasn't painful at all. Position seems to be the solution, but what position is best for one may not be the best for another. Experiment to find which is the best position for you.
hmmm.... you know what.... i might actually try that one day...... thanx still not looking forward to it tho lol
Just start watching anal porn and acting sad and distant around her. Then get her really drunk one night and ask her where she thinks your relationship is headed. Have lube ready. Also have your keys ready, as you might decide that you have tried hard enough, and it is time to move on.
Stick a well lubed finger in her ass while you are licking her clit and watch her go wild. You will especially cum hard with you finger in her ass while licking her. Then, slowly finger her ass with her lying on her stomach. Tell her how sexy and beautiful her ass is. Do this a few times and she will be really wanting to try anal with your dick.
