My wife and I lick each others ass. I don't think its a power trip so much as it is we love pleasing each other.
:2thumbsup:/The Books on Human Sexuality mention how the nerve endings in the anal and rectal area corresponds in tactile sensation to the vagina.Yeah,you are getting double the pleasure and double the fun. Lucky2
If one of the partners is a submissive than of course it's about power. And I kind of think MOST sex is about power in one way or another. I read a feminist paper once where the woman argued that most typical methods of sex between a man and a women can't be anything but a submissive on the part of the woman. The very fact that a woman allows herself to be penetrated makes it a submissive act on her part. At least according to this woman who I kind of agree with. Of course she went on to argue that that meant all men were evil and that sex itself was evil, but well, we can be right all of the time. I do give my boyfriend rim jobs and it is a submissive thing on my part. I feel like I'm being dirty and subservient to him by doing something kind of dirty like that just to give him pleasure. But then, as others said, it's pleasurable to know you are giving pleasure to someone you love. As a little aside though, I think the position that guys often have to get in in order to be conveniently rimmed are somewhat submissive positions. On his knees or on his back with his legs up? Sort of submissive.
I love rimjobs. Giving and receiving. I don't think there's anything more amazing than having your girl's ass shoved in your ass, and hearing her moan as you tongue fuck the hell out of her.
When a guy's most precious asset is between a girl's teeth, one bite from emasculation, who really holds the power?