I want to know what guys like because every boyfriend I`ve ever given oral sex to didn`t seem that into it. What are some awesome techniques to use for next time? (I have a gag reflex, so I need to know how to work around it) :daisy:
I feel a little weird giving oral advice to a 17 year old girl but if you go to youtube and type in "Blowjob Demonstration" it will give you a couple of pointers. Stay Brown, Rev J
Be firm with it it's not a delicate snowcone your licking to prevent it falling off. More that you're desperate to get a rubber ball stuck in a vacuum tube. Try talking dirty during the whole thing,
Hahoo, man...alright, first you lick the cock, from the tip, all the way down to the scrotum. Feel free to give the ol' family jewels some preliminary loving, either by licking, or if he's not too sensitive down there, taking one or both testicles in the mouth. Moaning sounds and dirty talk optional, albeit preferable. Then, when he's sufficiently warmed up, work your way up to the glans, still holding off taking the head all the way into the mouth, and just gently lick the frenulum (the 'string' running from the bottom of the glans to the shaft). Kiss the glans, sucking the head ever so lightly between moistened lips, while keeping the tongue action going in a twirling motion. Slowly, ever so slowly, take more of him inside you, and try to maintain eye contact. You can use your hands for manual stimulation, but personally I prefer no-hands blowjobs. At this point, the main thing to avoid is scraping your teeth over his shaft, but other than that, giving a 'good' blowjob really isn't rocket science - it's really more about the feeling you put into it than any specific technique. And yes, the rumors are true: the preferred way for a guy to finish is in the mouth. Again, moaning sounds are a plus while he's climaxing, because making any kind of sound stimulates the by then ultra-sensitive glans, and because it communicates to him you are, as they say at McDonald's, loving it.