Need some dating advice (27 year old single guy)

Ok so I haven't been in a relationship in a few years. Just recently I have stepped up my game and started to actively pursue dating. So here is the situation...

About 2 weeks ago I met a girl at a bar who was engaged and she seemed to like me and said I would be a good fit for her friend. Subsequently, she went through with her matchmaking skills and got me her friends number (we will call girl A). I called her and had a date set up about a week afterwards. The next weekend, (night before the blind date) I met another girl at a bar (girl B) who I seemed to hit it off with. I got her number and exchanged a few texts later on that night.

So blind date with girl A went pretty good. We had a few beers, I was pretty intimidated by her looks and personality but I stood my ground and she showed interest. Then we ended up scheduling a 2nd date (just so happened to fall on Vday). In the mean time I had exchanged a few texts with girl B setting up plans to hang out with her this coming weekend.

Vday date didnt go too hot... maybe it was the pressure of the big day and only our 2nd date. I never kissed her or anything and wasn't sure if I was feeling vibes. But I still felt an attraction and thought maybe she did too so the next day I asked her if she wanted to meet for drinks and she agreed. We met that night and really hit it off again, ended up back at her house for a movie and make out session.

Now, first off I am not the "player" type. I am an honest guy looking to meet an honest women but I have yet to discover what my "type" of women is. Girl A seems awesome and we are clicking but I still don't know if it could happen between us. So my problem is now, I have this guilty feeling that I am meeting with girl B this weekend (even though obviously I'm not in a committed relationship yet with girl A). Do I blow girl B off? Do I meet with her? I think girl A would be disappointed if she found out I was meeting with another girl...

So, lets here some opinions!

 

You're not committed to either one , so go and have fun . See a and b and c if you can find her too. Suppose it doesn't work with (a) , why limit yourself ? You might regret it later .

 

You've said you're not the player type so I'd go with your instincts. I am the player type so I'd have no problems going on a date with Girl B and if Girl A gave me shit about it I'd be like "Fuck y'all!"
But you're not, so you shouldn't try and pretend you are. Forget Girl B and concentrate on Girl A. If it doesn't work out long term with Girl A, you can always get back in the game and find more girls to date. You won't really be thinking about one girl that you could have gone on a date with that probably wouldn't have gone anywhere anyway.

 

You should at least see girl B and see what she is like and go from there. Your not doing anything wrong. Dont blow her off. Wouldnt be fair to her or you.

 

This is it.

Don`t try to do a whole lot more than your father or grandfather would have done. Dating one woman is enough trouble as it is. Dating multiple women simultaneously, you have to be cut for it.

I can`t do it. Although, I have fucked multiple women simultaneously without the dating. With the dating, it would have been unbearable to me.

 

Ask girl A and girl B how they feel about a 3some. You never know if both or one of them is Bi-sexual. That could be a plus.