How do I brake up with my Boyfriend without hurting his feelings? He REALLY REALLY REALLY likes me. A TON. I need to tell him Im Lesbian but how can I do that without him being all, weird. I already know that he is Gay friendly its just that I dont know how he will react to me just being like "Hey, guess what, Im gay! Lets brake up but I want to be your friend still." He wont want to do that. Any ideas?
tell him you want to put the brakes on the relationship. all puns aside....dude, you have the best excuse for a break up ever. Whenever I say "its not you, its me," guys know its bullshit. But if you say "its not you, its me, because I'm a lesbian!" he'll believe that it truly is you and not him. You can totally avoid the messy rejection emotions that come with, well, being rejected. Because you aren't really rejecting him, you're rejecting his entire gender.
Goodluck, whichever way you go about it its still going to be painful for him if he cares about you as much as you say he does. But better now than never! I broke up with my (male) fiance after 7 years and a child together. Mainly because I didn't want to break his heart and hurt his feelings. yeah, after 7 years it hurt a lot more than what it would have after 1. Lesson learnt. But we have a beautiful child together, so no regrets. I broke up with him, saying that I'd really like us to be friends also, yeah, easier said than done. To say he hates my guts is an understatement, he thinks I lied to him for 7 years. He doesn't get I was really confused and didn't know what I was doing. Anyway, this is your post not mine, sorry. What I have definatly learnt is that honesty is always the best policy. He's going to find out sooner or later hey? Goodluck
