My boyfriend(aged 17) was a virgin when I met him, but I wasn't. We have had sex three times since, but he only seems to last a few minutes. I wondered if this is normal, and when/if this is going to change. Any help would be great!
He hasn't had experience/ "practice" before you, so.. yeah. It's "normal". The only help I can give you is just talk to him about it, tell him what you would like and dislike. He probably really does want to please you, so being open with him about it is the best way to help both of you.
Its completely normal when youre a 17 year old kid who's just discovering these things. On the flipside, the cool thing about being a 17 year old kid just discovering these things is that he's probably going to be ready to go again 5 minutes after he came. You should capitalize on that. You could also subtly suggest that he masturbates not long before he sees you or has sex with you. OR foreplay until he cums - shower - and then real sex. fun for both. Practise safe sex kids!
Both of these are truth. Although, i'd *not* suggest he masturbate, as it may crush him. I'd go the foreplay route. Also, you could teach him how to go down on you properly, and have you "go first," if you don't want to wait on him to lose his hair trigger...It may take a while (read "a year") before he has any real longevity.
He's going to need to have a lot more sex before he starts lasting a while. Give him a lot of blow jobs too.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sGYsvR1PTmc&feature=youtube_gdata_player"]Jon Lajoie - Too Fast - YouTube When he gets close.....tell him that u saw his grandma at the supermarket, and that she looked real nice.
