This may seem like a stupid question to many people, but I've often wondered what folks do in preparation for anal sex. Do you take a laxative or have an enema first? In short, do you do anything proactive, other than trying to shit beforehand, to empty and clean your colon before you engage in anal sex? Putting the question another way: is there anything specific you do to try to minimize odors, the risk of urinary infection, or the transference of fecal matter to the mouth or vagina... or do any of those things even worry or bother you? The idea of anal sex, which I once considered abhorrent, is beginning to appeal to me and I'd like to know what precautions, if any, other folks take.
My wife doesnt do anything special at all. We just go at it. She wont do enemas and finds it almost silly.
Enemas are used to alleviate any fears of fecal matter. It is a good practice, and mandatory in the porn industry. Enemas, lube and others are only part of the physical preparation for the sinister act. What is more important, I argue, is the mental preparation for anal sex. Specifically, she must want it badly in her ass before you insert. Otherwise it will be painful and just ruin the moment.
I always use a douche after having a shit - before sex, that is. I like to be clean as, and almost all the guys I go with nowadays are also as clean. Anal sex used to be abhorrent for me too, but now I'm into it I just regret the pleasures I've missed for most of my life. other than that - lube, anal lube in plenty and a condom unless u r bonded anyway Simon :sunny:
As a woman!! I like to be clean.. My fiancé says he doesn't care... In fact I think the qoute was why would I go to the zoo if I didn't want to see animals... That being said... It is a comfort level between the people that choose to engage.. If you get my meaning... I personally modify my diet and eveything, but we don't live together at this time.... I love anal... But wish the prep time and mental wasn't so intensive ... Cause I still deal with that part personally... Guess I am a girl ...being clean is important to me!!! Girls don't eat tomatoes!!! If u want ur guy to go down... Makes ur woo woo stink!! .. Have a good night !! Do what u can to please ur man!! And men be there for a woman that is willing to please u!!!!
No special prep with my GF before we do that, just the usual foreplay & lube and we are good to go. Rarely, if ever, have any issues. I think its important to remember that when you are playing with that part of the body, you do run the possibility of occasionally getting messy. But having to worry about it & prep beforehand likely takes a lot of the spontanaeity out of it.
someone mentioned (on another thread about this topic) Clean Stream. I found it on Amazon, unused and new for $30.00. Check it out.
clean streams are great devices for prepping for anal sex, and me and my wife both use it during our shower prior to starting any of our prolonged sexual encounters, because we never know what we might get up to, and knowing we are both clean makes us feel a bit more comfortable with what we are doing. http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/album.php?albumid=10740&pictureid=87434 my wife wont do anal sex, but she still uses the clean stream for an enema because i do rim her, and use my finger or tongue to insert about 1" into her anus, and she wont let me do it unless she has a flush out. we also find that even tho we do use the clean stream device pretty well, sometimes not long after doing it, there can still be a slightly messy watery discharge (called SANTORUM) from the anus during foreplay, or even during an anal act itself, but its very rare, so we dont let it bother us. some have advised us to use the clean stream about 1 hour prior to engaging in anal play, others say the best practice is to avoid eating for several hours before hand as well. in porn movies the actresses get paid more for anal scenes because they actually have to refrain from eating for up to 36 hours prior to their video being shot, and must also do several full anal enema's prior to the act being done, its just mandatory practice in that business.
from Tara Lynn Foxx herself, i know its a few years old, but i can tell you that now days some of the very things she mentions in this link have now become mandatory by "most" porn producers. http://superdps.com/2009/07/10/porn-star-tara-lynn-foxxs-10-things-i-do-for-anal-scenes/ google the topic, there is info out there, but mine comes from a friend who used to be the videographer of one of the biggest porn studios in america. edit: if you really want to get the best results for cleaning up and getting ready for anal play without having to go without food or certainn drinks before, then just do an enema using clean, warm water every 20 to 30 minutes for 2 to 3 hours prior to doing anal, this will ensure that you have pretty well cleaned yourself out the best you can. i know having to "prep" before anal play might seem like a lot of work for a bit of pleasure, but i know i dont want a smelly, messy bedsheet while while we are playing our anal games, but a bit of Santorum here or there wont really be all that bad.
I've trained my body to go to the toilet at a certain time, early in the morning. I'm not usually having sex early in the morning. I like to shower before sex anyway so slip a finger up, all good, ready to go.
I usually wash his gimp suit about an hour before...by hand of course..the rubber is not good for the washer then i clean his ears shave his back final prep is simply placing a rawhide dog bone in his mouth for clenching and closing the windows so as not to alert the local authorities