usual man's whim? or is it time to change guy?

I am 23. I have son who is 4 years old. I have relations with one young man half-year back began. We do not yet still live together.
Recently he suggest to diversify sex. And he sayd: I want you to meet me without panties under your skirt. He suggested that I should spend all evening without panties (while going for a walk or staying at home) when he visits me. I answerd to him that I did not want because I had child at me.
He was not very pleased from my answer.
Now I sit and think; should I indicate to guy on door (but I don't want to be alone), or should I now two evening per week to go without panties under skirt?

 

Don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything that makes you uncomfortable. That kind of situation, where you give up your personal power, has the potential to build upon itself and to grow. Decide what you are comfortable with, draw the line and stand firm. You need to feel that your comfort level is respected. That's my opinion.

 

so is the issue that your kid could see up your skirt without panties on? in that case, i'd say it's a reasonable concern. not a reason to change guy though.

 

No. My mini-skirts are not so short that somebody can see my panties or that I am without my panties on.
But it is uncofortable for me to feel that I have nothing under skirt, and that I must control myselfe: not to lean, not to bend over to pick up something for example.

 

Going commando isn't going to warp your child, as long as your other clothing covers everything so that you're comfortable (bare under a floor length skirt can still be sexy). Him getting upset about it is a bit immature. In any relationship there should be compromise, not pouting when he didn't get his way.

If you want to try it, start off with something you're more comfortable with...perhaps meeting him in the bedroom without panties...or take them off after you put your child to bed. His request isn't unreasonable (couples should have fun with their sexuality and be able to ask their partner to explore new things) but he should respect your boundaries.

 

That's a pity. But BF wants me to wear mini-skirt. It is like a fetish for him.

 

Your Son Was 4 Yesterday, And 5 Today....

Happy 5th Birthday Little Guy...arty:arty:



Cheers Glen.

 

He is almost 5. Will be 5 in March.

 

kids come first

no 5 year old needs to see moms cooch..