i've been with my lesbian partner for over a year and fair enough she has told me to get my act together and learn how to give her sex properly and how to make her feel attractive. i was woundering if anyone had any tips or experiences they would like it share with me
go wild and crazy on her as.s before she falls asleep! do what might/would excite you, or learn from some porn
Er, why is the onus on you to "get your act together"? It takes (at least!) two to have sex. If there's something specific she wants you to do she should tell you instead of a general instruction to give her better sex. Sounds a bit selfish (and princessy) to me. I'm not sure how useful other people's experiences and tips are going to be seeing as it's one particular girl you're hoping to satisfy and she may not like the sort of things suggested. I'm bi- but have only had relationships with men up until recently. I'm now in a relationship with a girl and I love it. One of the nice things about relationships and sex between women is that the dynamics are completely different. There isn't the strict dichotomy between man and woman and the expected roles and behaviour. There's no reason for you guys to fall into a typical male-female hetero relationship where she's the princess who makes passive aggressive demands for her partner to figure out on his/her own. Why can't she let you be the princess on occasion and simply demonstrate on you what she wants you to do to her?