Whats true confidence??

Discussion in 'Men's Issues' started by jmt, Aug 11, 2011.

  1. stanburyfam

    stanburyfam Member

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    True confidence is to be able to walk into a room and find the biggest badest straight guy in the room, walk up to him and give him a great big kiss on the lips, and survive.
     
  2. walsh

    walsh Senior Member

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    Premo = trying to grow a moustache but not there yet?
     
  3. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    If what others say doesn't matter, how is one to correct one's errors?

    Neither "unshakeable" nor "bullheaded" are a part of confidence.
     
  4. misterrunon

    misterrunon Member

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    well, within reasonable limits. they matter, but they do not shake the belief you have in yourself. of course it matters what others think.
     
  5. renogirl_2

    renogirl_2 Wandering Sunflower

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    Yes I agree, better worded but YES!

    and MikeE, I disagree when you say: If what others say doesn't matter, how is one to correct one's errors? Neither "unshakeable" nor "bullheaded" are a part of confidence.
     
  6. MikeE

    MikeE Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    What part don't you agree with?

    The implication that criticism from others is important feedback and a check on one's own misbehavior?

    or

    That a confident person includes the possibility of being wrong. That confidence requires that one be open to the possibility of being shaken from a (mistaken) position in order to take a correct position?

    or something else?
     
  7. renogirl_2

    renogirl_2 Wandering Sunflower

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    That, I can agree on.
     
  8. Fingermouse

    Fingermouse Helicase

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    Confidence doesn't need a big mouth.
     
  9. scratcho

    scratcho Lifetime Supporter Lifetime Supporter

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    Exemplified by those guys that climb buildings and rock faces with NOTHING BUT HANDS AND FEET. That to me is the absolute in true confidence. I have to turn them off when I see them doing it.
     
  10. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    The ability to subjugate, and inflict pain with a conscience.
     
  11. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    Premature ejaculation.
     
  12. gphoenix

    gphoenix Guest

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    True confidense is knowing yourself and knowing that you are who you want to be. You don't have to put on a mask for people, just be...
     
  13. Cherea

    Cherea Senior Member

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    True confidence is that which we can`t talk ourselves into having.

    Alternate answer: being born to fuck.

    alternate answer 2: being able to stick it out on your own; and giving the chick a hall pass when in a relationship.
     

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