How to have first experience?

A couple days ago after I struck out with a chick, one of my gay friends said "hell I'll blow you if you want." I kind of wanted him to but didn't say anything about it. Now I'm rather curious, how do I go about asking him to? I don't really know if hes attracted to me. I want him to do it for my first time because it'll be more comfortable, at the same time I don't want to get rejected. What should I do?

 

The thing about doodz is that it`s a lot easier. Doodz will approach me. Unfortunately, as in everything else, not the real cute ones.

But, I did have a real cute guy approach me two weeks ago. Nothing came of it, but he was a serious 8 out of 10, in my estimation. I was flattered.

For me to pick up an 8 chick, I would have to be the richest, strongest, most charismatic, most this, most that, tallest, magician, juggler, handyman, chauffeur, bodyguard, bread-winner, father figurest, funniest, hoop jumper, pick up artist, doormat, most persistent, douchiest, beggar in the world.

But, generally speaking, cute guys will give me looks. But, the uggos will just about rape me in public if I let `em.

 

well if he suggested it once on his own chances are you won't get rejected by him. one thing you can do is go out with him. i don't mean a date. just getting together for a few drinks somewhere for example. and later you can ask him over to your place (he'll know what that means). and then take it from there.
good luck.

 

We all live and learn. The single most important lesson of your adult life is NEVER to reject, disregard, etc. an offer for a BJ .

If a reasonably attractive dude says, " "hell I'll blow you if you want.", you nod with your head, give dude a big smile and get a room, like NOW!

That's called "showing some respect"!

KD

 

+1! I couldn't have said it any better haha I have never been with a guy but if it honestly came to me that easy and if I was in that situation.. I would not only whip out my dick in a second but probably give him a hand taking his out.

 

send him a FB message, "you know when you said you would blow me I didn't know how to respond, but I'm actually a little interested by the offer...want to come over?"

simple, he'll do it, and it will be good, guys suck cock good.

Edit: report back to us after you do this.

 

I agree.

 

yeah right, put your personal life right there on the internet for the whole world to see. classy. if you think compromising another person's privacy like that is a good idea, then i suggest you also record the whole thing with a camera and put that on your FB or whatever account as well.

 

you sound a little bit paranoid man. you do know that the chat and message features on FB are relatively private correct?

I guess you could text him if you're afraid of...whatever this guy is afraid of.

 

Call him up and say "you still serious about that offer?"

 

no i don't know that because i don't use FB et al. and relatively private is not the same as private. besides texting etc is cowardly. you do things like this face to face. not over the phone, or through a text message, or internet.

 

so you always pick up the phone and call your booty calls?

 

what the hell is a booty call?

 

did you ever go through with it?

 

Yep, was super fun, we ended up doing everything besides anal.

 

details? how did you bring it up with him?

that's awesome you had a good time. love hearing about first timers.

 

Details, we need details!

Was he good at it?!

 

Just tell him the truth that you want to experience what it's like to have another man suck your cock and you would feel so much more comfortable having a good friend guide you through this experience. If he's a good friend then I'm sure that he'll be glad to assist you and remind him that he's already made the suggestion anyways.:2thumbsup::sunny:

 

An openly gay guy at work hits on me quite often and sometimes I joke a little with him too.
I am starting to contemplate bringing up me sucking cock his cock up with him. I just need it to be on the quite haha.

But having a hard cock in my mouth is something I want to try once. I think about it way to much and i enjoy my cum....not the taste so much just the fact its erotic. I def need to feel a cock spasm in my mouth.

 

does not compute.