Fell in love with my best friend and she's stopped talking to me, what do I do?

Ever since I first became friends with her over two years ago, I've always loved her more than anything, we used to be best friends and we were with each other all the time, but in the past few months she's just stopped talking to me unless I say something first and I've just been so depressed about it all this time, my body physically is unable to feel happiness and I see her every day in lessons and she doesn't speak a word to me. She's so perfect in every way and I'm just the opposite. What made it worse was I ended up taking MDMA last friday to feel happier at a party and it just made me way too open for my own good and I was telling everyone about her and now everyone knows and worse of all somebody told her and now she knows. I don't know what to do, she's in so many of my lessons and I've just skipped them today, but I know I can't keep doing that. What do I do?

 

Start ignoring her. Totally.

Do your own thing work on a car, and grow up a bit. Then one day you'll accidently bump into each in the hallway lock eyes and she'll notice the love inside her that was always there.

At least that would work in an 80s teen flick. You're probably boned.

 

Ok calm down babe
talk to her!!!!!! if you two used to be best friends it will be ok...Now she prob isn't talking to you since you are freaking out about all of this and avoiding her. Honestly just talk to her, to clear this all up...Umm i hope you weren't going around saying you loved her and how perfect she is at the party :\ it shouldn't matter just go talk to her, only you two.

 

Yeah, I'd say just calm down. If something comes of it, then that'll be great! However, if nothing does come of it, or she winds up letting you know that she doesn't feel the same way about you, you'll have to work towards letting her go. Which is one of the hardest things to do... I had to do that recently with the girl I thought was "the one"... It's not easy, but it can be done.
Good luck to you!

 

You're 16.

 

move on. basically, you have no chance with her. and if you do, it's only after you move on.

 

Your 16, I don't remember the names of almost all the people I hung out with then. It's not a time for love it's a time for free experience and sensation. Move on to someone new

 

I Would Walk Up To Her After Class, With A Big Confidant Smile On My

Face, And Ask Her Out To Dinner And A Movie....

If This Blows Up In Your Face, Then It's Time To Move On....

Hope Everything Works Out For You...:2thumbsup:
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Cheers Glen.

 

Awww that's sweet glen. Yeah dude do that

 

Love her more, and let her know about it. Sounds like you're still holding something back.

 

What are you holding back baby what?

 

^ This, mostly this

If she is not into you and/or doesn't want to talk to you because you are in love with her, there's not really anything you can do about it

My advice would be to try and stir up some of that openness that you had from the MDMA and talk to her honestly about it

If she already knows, she should hear it from you. And hopefully she will give you a sincere response

 

You're going to have to be comfortable not having her in your life. First and foremost apologize for the humiliation you've put your "best friend" through during your MDMA trip where you publicly announced your feelings for her to the world before you even told her in a private romantic setting. (her girl friends are probably teasing her about it and she's is stressed in how to deal with it, and she probably blames you)

Also know that you are coming of as completely, emotionally whipped, and possibly a "clingy' type of guy who, let's face it, scares a lot of people off. This also screams, this guy has no self-confidence. ( NO self-confidence and low self-esteem = not sexy ) Fix this part of your mind man, or it'll mess with new girls you try to get with in the future.

I'd say write her a letter OLD SCHOOL style if you have good handwriting, saying you are sorry but also explaining how you feel your friendship has been strained just because you guys haven't hung out in a while even as friends. But also tell her you'd understand if she just wants to cut ties from you completely.