Is this the wrong board?...anyways, I NEED to KNOW why everyone use's that word and how big a deal it is. I bet i'm asking the wrong forum again.....it's just, I start my social group in half an hour...i'm DESPERITE.
Soo, usually, people mean it to state they dislike something?.... I'm a bit more comphetable with the idea of that. Espesally since a lot of people seem to say that word about...the color pink.....And I don't see how pink is all that 'bad' at all In my opinion it's one of the prettiest and sweetest looking of all the colors, I love dressing up characters in pink, too. It makes them more fun to look at. It can't possably be a bad color because i'm very warry if things are 'good' or 'bad'.... I like your post...thank you...... :daisy: Sorry I started this thread...I just need to learn these things because i'm soo confused about the world.....
I know this is a double post, but, can someone move this topic to the 'hate' board, since it's about hate? I don't want people seeing this topic everytime they walk in this board and then get angry with me... EDIT; Just....Great.....I can't delete this post......
Why would you care if someone got angry at you for that in the first place? Seems to me that would be entirely that persons problem (since it's unreasonable).
Because I don't want to think i'm a bad person....and people who make others angry are...bad..... And the world need's a lot more happy people. I can't...afford to make people 'mad'....I just CAN'T x_x; I wish I was more like Cynthia from Pokémon...she....just feels joy inside and doesn't care if she makes people happy or not...and, because of that, she manages to stay calm and joyful. And she isn't upsetting others either. o.0; I need to keep watching that pokemon episode and follow her example
People seems to have strong feelings about the colour pink. I hated it for a long time. The colour just made me bristle. Probably because I associated it as a kid with girls being sterotyped 'I wear pink and play with dolls' and that was so not the kid I was. What I hated even more was that pink totally looks great on me. Just some silly affectation that I grew out of. I still don't care for pink. It still seems like a child's colour to me, but I no longer 'hate' the colour. I just don't prefer it. I suspect that other people's aversion to pink is similar to mine. From baby age, it's more than just a colour and often tied in with gender expectations. Some folk don't like that.
I think, that you need to stop caring so much about what others think, Being overly nice is just as annoying as being overly mean, in my opinion. You just need to chill, and be yourself. Do what you want to do (as long as it doesn't conflict on the rights of others) and don't worry so much about what people think of you.
