Bisexual female - Need help getting a girl in bed!

Hello everyone! I'm new to this site and I thought it was a good place to post a question that's been on my mind recently. Within the past year or so, I have finally come to terms with my attraction to both males and females. I have been in a relationship with a man for 2 years now, and he is completely accepting of this about me, which is great. My problem is, I have never been with a female and I am absolutely DYING to have my first time. I have always had a bit of a confidence issue though. Not because of looks, as I am slender and good looking (or so I've been told, lol). I'm just not confident in my personality, or in my ability to get a girl in bed. I'm not close with a lot of girls, I have a few good girlfriends, but only one of whom knows I am bi and she's not that type, so she's not an option. My question to all you lovely folks is, what is a good way to try and get over my confidence issue and get a girl in bed? I guess you can say I don't really have "game"?? lol... I just really need to know effective ways to flirt with and eventually get a girl in bed with me. I think girls are so damn beautiful, and would really like to have my first time sometime soon.

Any advice is greatly appreciated!! Thanks!!

Amanda

 

you could try going to a girl bar, at least you know the girl wouldn't be freaked out by your advances.

 

your best option is go to a bar or use one of the dateing sites you find on the net, my ex was bi and she either used a dating site or went to a gay club, hope that helps a little

 

I think you better just post a nude pic of urself so I can give u an honest opinion. lol

 

Have you thought about whether you want to bed an experienced girl or a newbie like yourself?
An experienced is a possible easy route as they might take the lead a bit and in that way keep the ice broken, not to mention teach you a few things
Now, the newbie on the other hand, may be a fairly simple matter too, in that she has nothing to hold your performance up to.

I've been thinking about the same thing lately. For some reason, I've been able to think of nothing else! Haha and also I too have yet to pop my lez cherry so I'm insanely nervous about actually acting on it. Plus females are so fucking judgmental and wary of each other that I have no idea how to make a bestie, let alone a lover. But boy, would it be niiiice.
Best of luck to you in your endeavor and may she blow your mind when you find her!

 

Ask a man, he knows

roflmfao

 

If you're shy maybe a dating site or seeking out other shy types is the way to go.

 

I will sleep with you both haha
Just be open about girls, to other girls. A lot of girls are curious anyway, once you sew the seed then a beautiful fantasy grows and with some seductive smiles and a little confidence you should have a lady lusting after you in no time. Good luck my lovelies, I hope this is of some help.