Is it of God to divorce after 14 years?

My husband and I have been married for about 14 years , this is my second marriage and we have one son that is eleven and half years old . Sometimes I believe that my husband says things or does things that are not beneficial to me . He is always looking at other women and I feel like he is not attacted to me sometimes. I do not believe I am beautiful , I am 50 years old and I am not a rich lady so that does not help. Yet if we were to break up and go our seperate ways, I do not believe I would be happy , so I pray , pray , pray, and I try. I
am trying hard to find work to help support myself and my little family. Please pray for me. I feel like being poor makes us look primitive and not too smart. I would like to earn a car which we need very badly. I am an ordained minister. What advise should you give me and do you think that I should keep this as my last maarriage?

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Ms. Hopeless and scared

 

I quoted these words for a reason,

You need to gain self confidence, everyone is beautiful and you need to believe that you can be happy again.

Thinking like that will only keep you where you are.

 

Good day ma'am. I am very sorry to hear what has become with your marriage, but I have come to learn that no matter how bad the situation... God only wants the best for us. He always has something in store for us, something even greater than we could have ever imagined. I pray for you ma'am and keep your head up high, because know that God will never abandon you. He will always be there for you!

 

To paraphrase=god helps those who help themselves.

 

i really can't tell you whether you should stay with your husband or not, but i will mention that every man will look at other women; it's just nature. it doesn't mean he wants you any less.

 

HEY, there are no marriages in heaven.

 

I think this is the best post I have had in a long time. My husband and I made up a lot today and I feel a lot better now. I am glad to know there are great people at there that care. Ya'll have made my day and night and I feel a lot better. I did not realize there was not going to be marriage in heaven . I thought I would still be married. I laughed when I read these last few comments they caught me for surprise and I really liked them very much. I like hip forum. thank you very much. Helped immensely. Don't get out too much, sometimes.

 

everyone is beautiful. including you!:daisy:

 

Says you, but I doubt you be to heaven so your post is nell and void

 

Quote claimed for jesus of nazereth.