So I've been with my partner for nearly 2 years. And yer we have had some really rough times but for about a year now he just isn't interested at all he says he feels really paranoid cs he's but a lil weight on so if we do try he says that all he can think about is how fat he is.but I am dying I keep thinking it must be me. I do everything sexually I'm up for anything I love sex and I love to please a man that's my biggest turn on. I love role plays kinky underwear toys playing outdoors. U name it. I ask him if he doesn't find me attractive anymore n he says he loves me and that I'm beautiful. All I keep thinking about is how I just want a man to grab me and do anything he wants with me and crave me. We used to have sex all the time it was wild. I dnt know if it is me. I'm 5 ft 11 slim long dark brown hair big brown eyes (not really sure if that's a good thing) my breasts aren't huge but they are ok I'm a 32D. Is it me ? I'm so stuck. Opinions please ?
Sounds like he might need a break from being in a relationship altogether. If you two do give each other some distance for a little bit he might come crawling back to you.
All those things have crossed my mind :/ I've told him if he doesn't wanna b with me then fine just tell me but he says he does. I'm completely stuck in a rut right now. And Im so so horny. When hes asleep I finger myself just to try nd calm myself down but I end up making myself worse and having to orgasm like 7 times and then I have to change the sheets every morning because I am that wet I just cream everywhere.
You would not believe how many ladies my wife and I meet that are in a similar situations. We have an ad, at a swinger site, that has provided 5-6 ladies a year or so...every one is a lady being shunned by thier male, for whatever reason. Dont wait dear. Life is way to short, to wait for someone to stop feeling sorry for themselves...and maybe thats just what he needs. Now go get those panties fill up dear, go enjoy a mindblowing orgasm!!
Tell him you want him to FUCK you or your going to go look for it somewhere else..... u have needs why stay with someone if they cant satisfy them
In any relationship 'communication' is all-important. I think you guys need to have a 'sit down, we need to talk' moment. Good luck