cumming at the wrong time :-(

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by randilicious69, Dec 9, 2011.

  1. randilicious69

    randilicious69 Guest

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    So heres my problem, me and my gf have been together for 2 years, when we have sex everythings fine, a lot of the time I can cum right away during sex but all I have to do is just stop moving for like 2 seconds that the feeling will go away, everything goes great but when it comes to the end and she's ready to cum/orgasm most of the time ill have to pull out and cum right as she starts cummings/orgasm and it really sucks :-( I worry that shell start not wanting to have sex with me anymore cause shell know what the results are gonna be at the end :-( and not to mention how horrible and embarrassing I feel plus she's not that happiest ither but she says its ok, but we both no its not
     
  2. sunfighter

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    Why the hell are you pulling out? And what happens during the second round -- you don't have the urgent need to cum, right?
     
  3. randilicious69

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    Shes like if she has the feeling to cum than she can cum, but if she loses it like when I have to pull out she won't get it back. It's like a one time deal. And I dont cum in her cause we don't need a baby right now. Shse not on BC or anything, i never dated or been with a girl on BC before
     
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    it'd probably be worthwhile for her to go on birth control if you guys are fucking, even if you are pulling out because that is NOT a means of birth control. there are so many means of birth control now, all easily attainable, so i don't understand why a girl wouldn't take it.
     
  5. randilicious69

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    Shes trying to get back on it now, we moved and her job changed insurance plans so she has to like find new docs n stuff in are area, but how's that gonna help my problems? So we can do what we normally do but if I can't hold it and I don't wanna ruin her orgasm to just come inside her? But still try n pull out like I normally would?
     
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    Wha about this whole stupid not 100% affective thingy? What are the odds of getting her pregnant on BC? is there only a serent time I can cum in here or as long as she's on the pill it dosent matter? i guess shed probably know all that right?
     
  8. frustrated

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    Eat it and make her cum like that first. Then use a condom and you will last longer, she will proly cum again the whole experience will be better. I can usually give 2-3 orgasms to my 1 this way and I don't last all that long either. However, with the condom, it reduces sensitvity and makes it a little harder to cum. There are even condoms with a gell on the inside to make you less sensitive and last longer. These work well for some, others say they can't feel anything. And yea, pulling out don't work for b/c, lots of stuff comes out before you squirt.
     
  9. sunfighter

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    Oh, man. The problem you're talking about is insignificant compared to the danger of getting her pregnant. Use a condom always!! Didn't you get any sex education?
     
  10. apothecaryvybez

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    whoa dude. Not on birth control??????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
  11. RyanNeeds

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    This is the reason why so many little kids are running around these days having sex unprotected. Because 'pulling out' makes ALLLLLLLLLLLL the difference.

    Why are you pulling out when you're about to cum, I don't understand? If you have a condom on or she's on some form of contraceptive, then why don't you try sharing an orgasm? You're happy, she's happy and you're safe. Problem solved.
     
  12. Niku

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    Ahahhahahahahahahaha

    That laugh you deserve !
    Now to fix your extremely easy problem!

    First, never pull out! Ever ! Use condom, birth control or any other safety. But why pull out ?!
    I've carried on a lot of times after cuming ! Also, if you're worried about the condom, don't, if it breaks until that point, that's it, if not, chances of it breaking while less erect are far lower!

    Second, you finish before her, please her with your tongue!
    They love our tongue ;)
    Or, you can also start by giving her a oral, then start the intercourse ! Simple elegant solution :)

    P.s.
    Pulling out, DOES NOT WORK ! Stop messing with your luck !
     

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