My dick says one thing and I go against it. Since when this little muscle has the nerv to interfere with my will power? I tell you since when: about 12 years ago (aprox) when I first discovered the sensation of beeing aroused while drawing some boobs on a paper so I can put it under my pillow and dream about it ... once I had to start acting like I'm having sex with the stupid drawing and my grandma almost got me; I was too little to be concerned, I was 10 years old or so. But, it got me somehow addicted and the thing is I like it. First I like the girls verry much, I can admire or wish to f*** both the beautiful and the hot ones. Like I can appreciate the colour of the eyes, the hair, a fine waist or that murble neck or slim ankle ... also it gets me fired up instantly a hot cat, so to say, I don't feel like I need to describe this term Let's not forget that the problem of this thread is masturbation and why the heck I cannot help myself doing it, at least for a while. I had succeded in doing that in the first year of college (three years ago); my program was so intense that I couldn't spend too much time thinking about sex. And the social life was boosting, I had like over 20 to 40 people who I would talk with daily. A whole year not masturbating was a massive relief, I had an impressive evolution at school. The second I found myself alone in the shower wanking like before with a big big disappointment, but I would still have even higher average ... so masturbation is not interfering seriously. But there are some phisical problems: my lower back hurts so much that I feel like I would crack when I bend, but that last just a day and usually when I've wanked three days in a row, and one or two times in those days; or another problem appeared when I was 15 (desperatley jerking off) and my kidney was all just a pain, I had to take a treatment to eliminate freaking sand - that combination for me is more than enough to get my energy level lower, I'll get angry with myself because I wasn't able to control it and so on ... I become less responsive, passive. Well, it passes if stop masturbate like for a month. Now the question is, what the heck am I gonna do with a girlfriend? I'm gonna pleasure her only oral and rarely like normal? I'll be like granpa; well, I'm not that concern since girls are not all about sex but ... Now, my goal would be to pull myself together even if this doesn't interfere (too much) with my life, I still manage to do a good work at college, I think it doesn't bother me at all; or sometimes it would make me responsiveless and lethargic. There are periods when I tell myself that I need to back off to be in good shape for certain events (I'm studying singing in college and from time to time I have spectacles or concerts) And hey, what should I do about porn? I like it, it makes me want to be a part of it sometimes Sorry for writing so much, I was thinking that I should cut some paragraphs and paste them later Now, can you assist me with some of your own experiences or opinions?
You think you've got problems? I've just been circumcised a few days ago & I'm busting to jerk one off, but even the pain of touching my penis is overpowering at the moment, and is likely to remain so, at least until the stitches dissolve fully.
Hmm ... maybe I should, I'minmyunderwear. I did that already at 15, when it was too strong. Now it's like I'm 'abusing' my back; although the pain disappears after two days You've been circumcised PineMan, at your age? Why?
An injury from a cycling accident some years ago resulted in a build up of scar tissue, causing an increasing phimosis, until eventually something had to be done about it. I've always been opposed to circumcision for cultural or religious reasons - I see a medical reason, such as this, the only acceptable excuse.
growing up, there were a couple months where i'd get a sharp headache upon climax, it was the weirdest thing... i think it might've been dehydration, it hasn't happened in many years though. Its weird the physiological hoo-ha that comes with cumming, all the weird side effects of achieving orgasm... I notice my sinuses temporarily clear whenever i blow my load. It would be interesting to ask a doctor why these things happen
Your testicles produce sperm all the time, hundreds of millions of them a day, and they have to go somewhere. Once you no longer have messy wet dreams, the only two possibilities are masturbation and intercourse, and if you don't have a willing partner to relieve your "blue balls", masturbation is the only other healthy outlet. Don't agonize over it. Wanking is also good practice for being a good lover. If you practice "edging", bringing yourself to the brink of orgasm and then pulling back from the brink, and then doing it again and again until you finally decide to cum, you will become a better lover. No more PE (see my thread in "Sexual Health"). When I first entered puberty, I was distressed about how these strange new feelings swept over and took control of my body. But then I realized that it was the natural course of human life, and it was a good thing, and also happened to be very pleasurable. So I "went with the flow", so to speak. If you can think of nothing else all daylong except wanking, you have an obsession, but if you learn to tame your little head and let your big head control your actions, you will be much better off. You screw with your brain and not your penis anyway.
Great post Cutted, I apreciate it. Well, I'm not obsessed, thank God, it's not a daily situation, but I'm trying to skip it from time to time, because it keeps me in shape better off for a period, at least ... let's say a week. If I'll use myself to wank just once per week it'll be fine, that means no more lower back pain or lethargy.
