How to ask the girl in my corner shop out on a date?

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by Jacktheman37, Mar 15, 2012.

  1. Jacktheman37

    Jacktheman37 Member

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    Can someone give me some advice. I think I might really like the girl who works in my ccornershop who I think is really cute. I do not know if she is single or married or if she has a boyfriend but I would like to try and ask her out. What should I do as I do not want to look silly.
     
  2. PurpByThePound

    PurpByThePound purpetrator

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    Ask if she would like to go out with you sometime.
     
  3. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    Is There A Nice Little Outdoor Cafe Near To Where She Works, If So,

    Why Not Suggest Meeting For A Coffee And Toasted Sandwich For Lunch...:).

    The Worst That Can Happen Is A Refusal...:).

    As The Old Saying Goes, Nothing Ventured, Nothing Gained...:).



    Cheers Glen.
     
  4. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    Yeah, this one precisely. Really there's no fancy tricks to this. You just gotta ask her. Pretty in-your-face and old-fashioned approach, but there's a reason why they use the term "tried-and-true" method...

    Although, one thing has caught my attention about your post OP... You say that you THINK you MIGHT really like this girl... Are you not sure, or something? If you REALLY like her, then you definitely would know...
    Just caught my attention, that's all. *shrug*

    All the best
     
  5. Jacktheman37

    Jacktheman37 Member

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    All I can say is that I would like to ask her out but not very good at doing that and do not want to make a fool of myslef.
     
  6. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    Looking Silly Is Part And Parcel Of Life...:).

    If It So Happens You Fall Off Your Horse, You Climb Back On, And Try Again...:).

    That's Life My Friend...:).



    Cheers Glen.
     
  7. Alternative_Thinker

    Alternative_Thinker Darth Mysterious

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    Glen's right. Put it this way... You're making an ass of yourself by worrying about making an ass of yourself. We all do this, so we're all making an ass of ourselves.

    You can ask her, and if you actually REALLY like her, then you have all the more reason to do this. ;)
     
  8. Perilless

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    Ask her if shes got some buns for your hotdog...then leer at her for about a minute. Does the trick every time ;)
     
  9. GLENGLEN

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    Dear Lord, And To Think I Share This Planet With Peeps Of This Calibre...:banghead:



    Cheers Glen.
     
  10. Perilless

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    It wasnt meant to be taken seriously :rolleyes:
     
  11. GLENGLEN

    GLENGLEN Banned

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    Trust Me, I Didn't...[​IMG].



    Cheers Glen.
     
  12. Perilless

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    I suspected as much :D
     
  13. Jacktheman37

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    I chickened out. I went into the shop and got a small bottle of coke went to go a pay for it said hi to her she told me how mcuh it cost I paid and smiled at her she smiled back I took my change and left and am kicking myself for not saying anything els.
     
  14. Eruantion

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    I can feel your pain! There's a girl that works at the local hiking/outdoor supply shop that I'd really like to ask to go for a cup of coffee... but I've never done anything of the sort in my life, so it's really intimidating. One of these days I'll get over there. :)

    But yep, that's pretty much the best advice you'll get. Just jump in feet first and ask. Unless you take the really really long way of going about it, which might get you thrown in the "friend-zone". I've done that a time or two as well.
     
  15. Hugh Janus

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    Be confidant. Look her in the eye, smile, and introduce yourself. Give her a complement. You will probably fail, but practice makes perfect.
     
  16. Hugh Janus

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    Realize that over half of marriages end in divorce, and spend the money you would have thrown away on the girl on porn and beer. Buy it from your corner shop, and she might get curious and offer to come over and join in the festivities.

    It might just work. If not, drink beer and look at porn, and save a fortune and your self esteem.
     
  17. ToFunToDie

    ToFunToDie Senior Member

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    Nut up, and Ask her. Simple.
     
  18. Bolero

    Bolero Banned

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    Nah, just stay home and jerk off. That way you don't have to communicate with humans.

    (That was an insult to push you in the right direction, it's not personal, I would have meant it towards anyone who posted something like you did).
     
  19. walsh

    walsh Senior Member

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    Since when did wanting to ask someone out mean you want to marry them?
     
  20. The Imaginary Being

    The Imaginary Being PAIN IN ASS Lifetime Supporter

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    wait for her to go on lunch and 'accidentally' bump into her.
     

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